Why do girls have this reaction to me?

[Mr Spoon]

Hi

A bit about myself. I'm six foot two hit the gym and Iam told (not by family) that Iam pretty goodlooking. Yet women in general seem to dislike me:woo:

I don't know how I do it , I have friends (male ones) but Iam very very shy. I suffer from a body image disorder so I find it difficult to string two words together.And it doesn't help when strangers ask if I have a girlfriend and when I say no they think Iam Gay or something.

I'll give you an example of what Iam talking about. I was in a supermarket today. And I was trying to open a plastic bag to put some bread in . These two girls noticed this I think and one says ' Does he need some help?' and the other one goes (no I think he needs some mental help though!!).Now this girl in question works in this supermarket and I do catch her glancing at me at times . I kind of thought it might be because she knew me from somewhere but I obviously creep her out.

I have never chatted her up or anything so I don't know how it's possible to creep someone out I have never even spoke too...Iam not weird I have m8's and a job but I just seem to have some kind of women repellent on me. Any thoughts on this matter would be appreciated .Thanks!

 

[Obsidian]

1. Body image disorder doesn't affect your ability to speak.
2. Your post is too vague.
3. Read the DJ Bible to learn how to attract women instead of repel them.

 

[Wyldfire]

1. Body image disorder doesn't affect your ability to speak.
2. Your post is too vague.
3. Read the DJ Bible to learn how to attract women instead of repel them.

If I could reach through the screen I would take your keyboard away. Stop posting to people who have psychological issues because you don't know what you're talking about.

Body image disorder makes a person feel insecure. Insecurity causes people to be uncomfortable talking to people.

To the OP...let me see what I can find for online self help with body image.

There are a bunch of books available, but some are very specific to different problems.

This site has a lot of great info on different emotional/psychological issues:

http://mentalhelp.net/poc/view_index.php?idx=home

 

[Play the Game]

You probably have Peter Parker syndrome... girls can tell a loser just by the way he walks.

 

[Obsidian]

sure, Wyldfire, just feed into his need for excuses. Plenty of guys on this forum have/had anxiety issues. That doesn't mean we can't learn to be sociable.

i still say the post is too vague


and btw, here's a hint, Spoon: No matter how ugly you may think you look, LOOKS DON'T MATTER. Keep that in mind. Be powerful, not beautiful. And read the Bible.