"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why do girls expect some guys to do crap from them but other guys they dont?

SgtSplacker

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As a computer guy I give folks I work with freebies pretty often just to help people out. A normal person will be appreciative and nice after that. But a pretty girl is going to see it as you are some weak AFC chump that has a crush on her.

She may even start to treat you bad or even tell other girls you are starting to creep her out. Since you really don't like her she will not understand why you are acting a certain way with her. She might think you're trying to fake it or hide something.

If I do a favor for a pretty girl i'll at least make her go out of her way somehow so she understands it's not an "anything for you" type of favor. I'm definitely not as nice like I am with regular people.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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