"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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why do girls expect some guys to do crap from them but other guys they dont?

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SgtSplacker

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As a computer guy I give folks I work with freebies pretty often just to help people out. A normal person will be appreciative and nice after that. But a pretty girl is going to see it as you are some weak AFC chump that has a crush on her.

She may even start to treat you bad or even tell other girls you are starting to creep her out. Since you really don't like her she will not understand why you are acting a certain way with her. She might think you're trying to fake it or hide something.

If I do a favor for a pretty girl i'll at least make her go out of her way somehow so she understands it's not an "anything for you" type of favor. I'm definitely not as nice like I am with regular people.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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