"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why do girls criticize men about their looks?

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Wow.. talk about drama.. Guys, go out and practice "getting it" and let's not waste our time on this drama.. Thanks.. There are women out there looking for the man who gets it and is not the wussy boy.. so get your a$$e$ out there like Im bout too.. and let the Hoooes flow my brothas.. lol..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Sayajin_Prince
it's a insecurity issue maybe? or is just that they don't give a **** to other traits?
Women, along with society in general, has a tendency to protray women as be more moral, righteous, innocent,...etc than men. The reality is that just like men, women are also attracted to the physical and will judge men based off his physical qualities, although many chicks won't admit it. So it's just like if a group of guys see a chick that has physically unattractive qualities and they criticize her, chicks do the same thing.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
For starters...it IS important to strive to look your best. The reason for this is because it not only improves the way you look and will attract more members of the opposite sex...but it makes you more confident...and anyone who claims otherwise is full of it. Confidence is one of the (if not THE) most important qualities in being successful in life...dating, relationships and otherwise.

I've been uninterested in men I found extremely attractive for many reasons over my lifetime. Immaturity, being boring, not being able to carry on intelligent conversation, being lazy in their relationships and friendship (all take and no give), ignorance, a history of sleeping with nasty ho-bag women, continuously going back to very bad relationships despite being miserable in them, bad attitudes...tons of things. I've NEVER looked beyond a guy for not making a lot of money, for driving a crappy car, for having a crappy job, being poor or for making mistakes in the past (as long as he owns them and at least tries to learn from them).

Yes, I'm very shallow about certain things. Other things I'm not at all. I like to look into the face of the guy I'm with, and by God, I've gotta really adore that face, period.

Bottom line is that just like you guys, I need certain things in a potential partner to be happy. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that, and by God, I'm honest about it. If I'm happy with the guy and he treats me well, he'll be treated so well he'll think he died and went to heaven. If I'm not happy with someone and I try to be with them my heart won't be in it and I'd only be wasting both his and my time, and I'm not big on that sort of thing. So, I know what I want and what will keep me happy and I'm not willing to settle for less, just as I wouldn't ever expect anyone else to settle for less than what they want.

I find it really bizarre than some men have such a difficult time with women who are honest about this sort of thing. That probably plays a big part in why so many women lie through their teeth and make up a bunch of cliche' BS when asked what they find appealing in men.

If you don't want women to fib then don't make them feel like they have to in order to avoid wounding your egos.
Hey Wyldfire, I didnt think you still posted on this site. It's good to see that you still do. What's up with you and how've you been doing??
 

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The internet is an entirely different monster. Since you talk first and get to know each other a little bit, you have a slight advantage at getting away with being less attractive. However, in person, the same would not hold true.
 

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Originally posted by Nightwing
Hey Wyldfire, I didnt think you still posted on this site. It's good to see that you still do. What's up with you and how've you been doing??
Hey Nightwing...nice to "see" you. I wasn't posting for quite some time...just the occassional "drive-by" now and then. This time when I stopped by I noticed that things had gone to the dogs and have stuck around to see if I can't instigate some much needed improvement. And who better at "instigating" than me? :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah i know that wyldfire but as u have prolly seen really beautiful girls with fairly average guys and not as much the other way around i feel mens looks do have an impact on the attraction women feel towards men. although women go for guys more for dominance, humour and intelligence rather than looks. I also feel the human minds have evolved more to attract parteners rather than survival alone.
 
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