Wow.. talk about drama.. Guys, go out and practice "getting it" and let's not waste our time on this drama.. Thanks.. There are women out there looking for the man who gets it and is not the wussy boy.. so get your a$$e$ out there like Im bout too.. and let the Hoooes flow my brothas.. lol..
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why do girls criticize men about their looks?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
Women, along with society in general, has a tendency to protray women as be more moral, righteous, innocent,...etc than men. The reality is that just like men, women are also attracted to the physical and will judge men based off his physical qualities, although many chicks won't admit it. So it's just like if a group of guys see a chick that has physically unattractive qualities and they criticize her, chicks do the same thing.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
Hey Wyldfire, I didnt think you still posted on this site. It's good to see that you still do. What's up with you and how've you been doing??
The internet is an entirely different monster. Since you talk first and get to know each other a little bit, you have a slight advantage at getting away with being less attractive. However, in person, the same would not hold true.
Hey Nightwing...nice to "see" you. I wasn't posting for quite some time...just the occassional "drive-by" now and then. This time when I stopped by I noticed that things had gone to the dogs and have stuck around to see if I can't instigate some much needed improvement. And who better at "instigating" than me?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah i know that wyldfire but as u have prolly seen really beautiful girls with fairly average guys and not as much the other way around i feel mens looks do have an impact on the attraction women feel towards men. although women go for guys more for dominance, humour and intelligence rather than looks. I also feel the human minds have evolved more to attract parteners rather than survival alone.