"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why do gays like me?

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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So I'm gonna preface this by saying that I'm straight.

I tend to notice more often than not that for some reason, gay dudes like me. It doesn't happen a LOT, but definitely more than most guys as I always feel like it happens to me more than most other guys I talk to. I think it has to do with the way that I look, because my brother had some creepers too, and my dad had gigolos come after him a lot too when he was younger (my mother always laughed and made fun of him for it because he knew he hated them lol). Now me, I don't hate them per se and I might even make acquaintances with one, but if one of them touches me, then I'm gonna smash their face in. That stuff just weirds me out. And I don't know why they have a liking towards me. Any thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've had more faggots hit on me than girls. One night I had 3 try to hit on me. By the 3rd I was pissed. I understand how girls must feel about unwanted advances.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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And I don't know why they have a liking towards me. Any thoughts?
You may be more outwardly accepting of others regardless of what you think their sexual orientation is.
I took the a prior GF for drinks to our town gay bar a couple times for sh|tz and grins. She really got into talking to the drag queens, trannies, and lesbos at our table. I got hit on a couple times by men getting drinks at the bar. No big deal.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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She really got into talking to the drag queens, trannies, and lesbos at our table. I got hit on a couple times by men getting drinks at the bar. No big deal.
I've had the same scenario. A lot of the time they flirt because it's fun for them regardless of what you like, or they want to see how secure a man is in his own sexuality to either squirm. Homophobes will usually get quite offended.

I laugh it off or make **** jokes. Sometimes single girls have gay friends that will screen you just like one of their girlfriends would.
 

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Man I'm glad to hear you guys have the same problem. There's two guys that work in restaurants near me that make it pretty obvious they want the d lol not mad about it but always wondered if I gave off that vibe or something
 

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Weird stuff happening. Glad this doesn't happen to me (or I'm being oblivious to it).
 

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I had a guy come up to me and a group of friends and literally do the hand of god. I said.. "WHAT THE FVCK ARE YOU DOING?"

That was the end of that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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There are 2 gay guys that hang out in one of my social circles. They are very friendly and pleasant to be with, but once they get a few drinks in them, they get way too flirtatious and start hanging all over me. I've nicely told them to stop and tried to laugh it off, yet they keep at it. It took getting confrontational with them before they got the message. And when I did, they got all butt hurt like a bunch of chics. They are about as much drama as a bunch of women. I prefer they stick to the gayborhood.
 
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