"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do gays like me?

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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So I'm gonna preface this by saying that I'm straight.

I tend to notice more often than not that for some reason, gay dudes like me. It doesn't happen a LOT, but definitely more than most guys as I always feel like it happens to me more than most other guys I talk to. I think it has to do with the way that I look, because my brother had some creepers too, and my dad had gigolos come after him a lot too when he was younger (my mother always laughed and made fun of him for it because he knew he hated them lol). Now me, I don't hate them per se and I might even make acquaintances with one, but if one of them touches me, then I'm gonna smash their face in. That stuff just weirds me out. And I don't know why they have a liking towards me. Any thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Duke

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I've had more faggots hit on me than girls. One night I had 3 try to hit on me. By the 3rd I was pissed. I understand how girls must feel about unwanted advances.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Billtx49

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And I don't know why they have a liking towards me. Any thoughts?
You may be more outwardly accepting of others regardless of what you think their sexual orientation is.
I took the a prior GF for drinks to our town gay bar a couple times for sh|tz and grins. She really got into talking to the drag queens, trannies, and lesbos at our table. I got hit on a couple times by men getting drinks at the bar. No big deal.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thorninmyside

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She really got into talking to the drag queens, trannies, and lesbos at our table. I got hit on a couple times by men getting drinks at the bar. No big deal.
I've had the same scenario. A lot of the time they flirt because it's fun for them regardless of what you like, or they want to see how secure a man is in his own sexuality to either squirm. Homophobes will usually get quite offended.

I laugh it off or make **** jokes. Sometimes single girls have gay friends that will screen you just like one of their girlfriends would.
 

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Man I'm glad to hear you guys have the same problem. There's two guys that work in restaurants near me that make it pretty obvious they want the d lol not mad about it but always wondered if I gave off that vibe or something
 

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Weird stuff happening. Glad this doesn't happen to me (or I'm being oblivious to it).
 

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I had a guy come up to me and a group of friends and literally do the hand of god. I said.. "WHAT THE FVCK ARE YOU DOING?"

That was the end of that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Duke

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There are 2 gay guys that hang out in one of my social circles. They are very friendly and pleasant to be with, but once they get a few drinks in them, they get way too flirtatious and start hanging all over me. I've nicely told them to stop and tried to laugh it off, yet they keep at it. It took getting confrontational with them before they got the message. And when I did, they got all butt hurt like a bunch of chics. They are about as much drama as a bunch of women. I prefer they stick to the gayborhood.
 
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