"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why do females do this?

Bonafide

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Ok so me and this one girl, were talking for quite a while. She seems really into me and honestly I liked her a bit too...but she's so stuck up that I didn't want to be just another guy. So I didn't really treat her like she was the **** or like a princess I mean I didnt torture her but I negged her alot and we did laugh about stuff and we were cool and whatever but...I dunno what happened but she began to claim that I was neglecting her after a while and I guess she sought to get some attention...I did use a little bit of push and pull with the attention but I didnt completely ignore her on purpose I just honestly have **** to do...I cant talk to you on the phone and then get on aim right after and then on myspace when im not on AIM ...hello I have a life!!

But yeah like we dont talk for a good while (my decision) and we begin to talk again. She starts telling me about how shes in love with my friend blah blah...okay next day she does the same thing again...and I say you know what, you guys would look great together...honestly...I start telling her how much of a great kid he is and w/e...next day shes saying that shes really not into him anymore, and I go why? she says she just isnt...im like no reason? she says w/e she just doesnt wanna talk about it...then I guess she figured out my game and actually started to fall for the **** I was telling her and I think she might really like him now

we havent talked for atleast a week...but I have a feeling she will come running back ( just like every other female )

and on top of that shes been looking better and better everyday...I dont get it...did I lose? lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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penkitten

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she likes you, and she can't tell if you like her or not. so she goes into the tangent about you ignoring her as if you don't like her (because she wants you to stop her and tell her that you do like her) and when that tangent doesn't work, she goes into another about your friend (to make you jealous) and when that doesn't work , she has resorted to saying she isn't into him anymore and is now leaving you alone a little (doesn't know what else to do) while dressing to impress at the same time.

whatever you are doing, has her going crazy for you.
sh it or get off the pot already and ask her out. the timing seems to be spot on now. call her up and ask her to go to some arcade that has pizza or something.
 

BMX

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Her looking better everyday is cool, it's happened to me too. Not a bad predicament your in now, huh?
 
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