Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why do females do this?

Bonafide

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Ok so me and this one girl, were talking for quite a while. She seems really into me and honestly I liked her a bit too...but she's so stuck up that I didn't want to be just another guy. So I didn't really treat her like she was the **** or like a princess I mean I didnt torture her but I negged her alot and we did laugh about stuff and we were cool and whatever but...I dunno what happened but she began to claim that I was neglecting her after a while and I guess she sought to get some attention...I did use a little bit of push and pull with the attention but I didnt completely ignore her on purpose I just honestly have **** to do...I cant talk to you on the phone and then get on aim right after and then on myspace when im not on AIM ...hello I have a life!!

But yeah like we dont talk for a good while (my decision) and we begin to talk again. She starts telling me about how shes in love with my friend blah blah...okay next day she does the same thing again...and I say you know what, you guys would look great together...honestly...I start telling her how much of a great kid he is and w/e...next day shes saying that shes really not into him anymore, and I go why? she says she just isnt...im like no reason? she says w/e she just doesnt wanna talk about it...then I guess she figured out my game and actually started to fall for the **** I was telling her and I think she might really like him now

we havent talked for atleast a week...but I have a feeling she will come running back ( just like every other female )

and on top of that shes been looking better and better everyday...I dont get it...did I lose? lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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she likes you, and she can't tell if you like her or not. so she goes into the tangent about you ignoring her as if you don't like her (because she wants you to stop her and tell her that you do like her) and when that tangent doesn't work, she goes into another about your friend (to make you jealous) and when that doesn't work , she has resorted to saying she isn't into him anymore and is now leaving you alone a little (doesn't know what else to do) while dressing to impress at the same time.

whatever you are doing, has her going crazy for you.
sh it or get off the pot already and ask her out. the timing seems to be spot on now. call her up and ask her to go to some arcade that has pizza or something.
 

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Her looking better everyday is cool, it's happened to me too. Not a bad predicament your in now, huh?
 
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