"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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why do fat chicks think they deserve "in shape" guys?

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Just so everyone knows, I've edited out 4 pages of crap unrelated to the thread at hand and sent them to the mod corner for review pending further action.

I don't care who your mom is, who married who, or who has three testicles. If you can't stay on topic, use the PM's. Nobody here cares about petty arguments - they have their place, and that isn't here.

STAY ON TOPIC!

Those of you involved know who I'm talking to.

Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by diablo
Just so everyone knows, I've edited out 4 pages of crap unrelated to the thread at hand and sent them to the mod corner for review pending further action.

I don't care who your mom is, who married who, or who has three testicles. If you can't stay on topic, use the PM's. Nobody here cares about petty arguments - they have their place, and that isn't here.

STAY ON TOPIC!

Those of you involved know who I'm talking to.

Thanks.
Hallelujah and stuff. Thank you.

Originally Posted by DJohnsonFat girls need love too.
Heh
lol. Well, I would love them, if they would learn to love themselves, and show me that by getting in shape. :p
 

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Fat chicks put out. So guys will do them despite what they may say about how they want to deal with only HB8's and higher. Fat Chicks know this and use it as their trump card.

I have seen it over and over again where patient FC entrapt horny, desperate guys who could do better.
 

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What defines " attractive" has ungone changes throughout history. If you look at the paintings by the masters from the Renaissance the nudes and partial nudes, in fact females in general would qualify as what most of you qualify as " fat" by todays standards in the western world. There is a reason they were painting females of that particular body form... they were seen as attractive!.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Dating fat chicks is like riding a moped. They're both fun to ride, until your friends see you on one"
:crackup:
 

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Originally posted by cinephile
Fat chicks put out. So guys will do them despite what they may say about how they want to deal with only HB8's and higher. Fat Chicks know this and use it as their trump card.

I have seen it over and over again where patient FC entrapt horny, desperate guys who could do better.
I lost my virginity to a super-horny fat girl that picked me up in a club. She got my number, called me, invited herself at my place and told me she wanted to f*ck really badly.

She was desperate (maybe for lack of getting any), and i was desperate because i was 18 and still a virgin, so we did each other a favor. To me that was very beneficial, since it boosted my confidence (i was not a virgin anymore!!) and i started having success with more and more girls afterwards.

So yeah, fat chicks can expect to get lucky with a fit guy, but they should at least realise that it can't last. I am sure that the majority of the fit guys that accept to bang them will soon leave in search for a slimmer girl.
 

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Originally posted by Avon
I got virtually raped by a fat chick. I knew her vaguely as a friend, so when she said she couldn't get home and could she crash on my sofa I said sure.

On the way home she bought more booze, and we stayed up chatting and I was having a nice FRIENDLY time, drinking heavily. Then I got her duvet and said goodnight. She grabbed me and started kissing, and I was so drunk I thought 'why not?'

I sucked on her planet sized boobs and stuck my **** in her mouth, and then we were f*cking.

I had to go outside at one point to dry heave. Then I started again, then I fell unconscious, without having finished, thankfully.

I'm still ashamed.

In answer to the original question, fat chicks generally loathe themselves, but are in denial. They then act like they are the shyt to fool themselves and others, hence their hypocritical expectations.
LMFAO! what a story, I'm sorry man....:crackup:
 

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Cause fat chicks have good taste too. Ugly chicks too. Nobody wants to be with an unattractive person.
 

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Originally posted by Craig Reeves

Personally, I've dated women of all shapes and sizes and I'll tell you that there's going to be something DRASTICALLY wrong with most women you date, I don't care what the case is. If it's not her looks, it's something just as bad or in most cases worse.
That is very true.

Originally posted by Craig Reeves

I generally don't think it's in our best interests to put women into a ratings system. The woman is either a 1 or a 0, 1 being she's good enough for you, and 0 meaning she isn't.
That is one of the best things I think I've heard in a long time. Very insightful.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally Posted by Craig Reeves
I generally don't think it's in our best interests to put women into a ratings system. The woman is either a 1 or a 0, 1 being she's good enough for you, and 0 meaning she isn't.
Wow...That's just...That's an AWESOME way to think about it. My new mantra!!!
HB10S DONT EXIST!
Good insight!
 

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The guy's like a friggin computer or something, either on or off, I like that.
 

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I agree with the guy who said his first was a fat chick. My first was an ultra religous fat chick who obviously hadnt been shagged in a good while. I don't think beggers should be choosers, ie if you are a virgin or arent' getting regular play, go get yourself a fattie!
 

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I can't ever bring myself to banging a fatty. Its effing disgusting... I wanna throw up just thinking about it.

I don't go to the gym and eat healthy to bang some fatty. Yuck
 
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