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I f*cking spit water all over my computer. Gold, Jerry.( . )( . ) said:INB4 a bunch of black guys say "No they not"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I f*cking spit water all over my computer. Gold, Jerry.( . )( . ) said:INB4 a bunch of black guys say "No they not"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What is predictabe and who cares if I am asking this question? Don't be over sensitive, you see it happening everywhere.backbreaker said:it's funny because like on the forum home page under anything else you see "why do black athletes" and i told my wife babe I bet you 20 bucks that the rest of the sentence says date/marry white women". This place is so predictable lol
I don't know about that. Asians, blacks, Indians, etc. idolize their celebrities as much as whites do. Sadly, celebrity worship appears to be a universal phenomenon.Mike32ct said:From the athletes' perspective, it's probably a status symbol.
The other piece of the puzzle is that white women are probably more into celebrity worship than other races. Western culture is far more into the celebrity gossip and "groupie" thing than other cultures.
I hate to be captain obvious, but the answer is rather straightforward. Because black women are ugly as fvck. Sure, you can point out some light skinned "black" celebrity (with mainly non-African features) who is not ugly as fvck but that's just the exception that proves the rule. I don't mean to offend anyone but we all know it's true. So when a black guy who has status and money but not a lot of brains (i.e. your typical athlete) decides to wife up some ho, of course he's gonna go for some white gold digger.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I will agree with you that white women who are trailer trash, walmart whales, etc. are unattractive. However, there is still a fair number of attractive white women in North America, especially in larger metropolitan areas. Black women, on the other hand, are just not naturally beautiful. It's got nothing to do with class. Show me one purely African woman who is stunning. There aren't any. Most attractive "black" women are actually mixed race.Fatal Jay said:^
That's not true bro, I could make the same comparison to fat overweight white middle aged married woman or the same comparison to trailer park white woman, or compare to white girls who are drug addicts. (which are becoming the majority of America, fit in shape white girls are decreasing everyday)
I would gladly bang the first one but no one of the others, but Im into girls with very feminine and gentle traits, even most white women to me have too strong facial traits.Fatal Jay said:https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/...nqSi1Peo0Rvlw2SDXnSoLo_7RZDE7xVsDFoTiH3hIZCkJ
http://creativefan.com/important/cf...rstyles-for-black-women/african-hairstyle.jpg
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http://www.clairenadine.com/beautiful african ladies wear.jpg
and there is way more, since you say there is no dark skin beautiful women lol
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Your thinking comes from watching too much tv dude. You haven't been around the world or done any traveling if you think all black women are ugly bro. Get off the couch and go see the world sometime.
Their women. I don't mind.Malice said:What is predictabe and who cares if I am asking this question? Don't be over sensitive, you see it happening everywhere.
It's no different than asking why white men are marrying foreign women.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The truth is, white women are much more attractive. Black women, unless you look like Ciara or Floyd Mayweathers wife,Malice said:This is not to make a racist troll post or anything I was just wondering because both these guys did and they are awesome athletes, and I was just wondering.
Robert Griffin III
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Adam Jones Orioles
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Floyd Mayweathers wife is mixed. I never heard of Ciara but she says she's not black:Ken785 said:The truth is, white women are much more attractive. Black women, unless you look like Ciara or Floyd Mayweathers wife,
http://www.ihiphop.com/blog/this-is...you-get-that-floyd-mayweather-moneypictorial/
...arent very attractive.
He should have pimp slapped her on live TV.Fatal Jay said:Lol at that rg3 footage, that was really disrespectful of her.
None of those women are beautiful. They all lack the feminine features white women possess. Even if you painted them white like a white women but kept the underlying features they would still be ugly.Fatal Jay said:https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/...nqSi1Peo0Rvlw2SDXnSoLo_7RZDE7xVsDFoTiH3hIZCkJ
http://creativefan.com/important/cf...rstyles-for-black-women/african-hairstyle.jpg
http://ladybrillemag.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/oluchi.jpg
http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lvnwbqnESW1qkv5xyo1_500.jpg
http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lvnwbqnESW1qkv5xyo1_500.jpg
http://www.clairenadine.com/beautiful african ladies wear.jpg
and there is way more, since you say there is no dark skin beautiful women lol
http://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/236x/e3/cb/43/e3cb43e2332acb2c72d1253acb346f58.jpg
Your thinking comes from watching too much tv dude. You haven't been around the world or done any traveling if you think all black women are ugly bro. Get off the couch and go see the world sometime.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.