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I f*cking spit water all over my computer. Gold, Jerry.( . )( . ) said:INB4 a bunch of black guys say "No they not"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I f*cking spit water all over my computer. Gold, Jerry.( . )( . ) said:INB4 a bunch of black guys say "No they not"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What is predictabe and who cares if I am asking this question? Don't be over sensitive, you see it happening everywhere.backbreaker said:it's funny because like on the forum home page under anything else you see "why do black athletes" and i told my wife babe I bet you 20 bucks that the rest of the sentence says date/marry white women". This place is so predictable lol
I don't know about that. Asians, blacks, Indians, etc. idolize their celebrities as much as whites do. Sadly, celebrity worship appears to be a universal phenomenon.Mike32ct said:From the athletes' perspective, it's probably a status symbol.
The other piece of the puzzle is that white women are probably more into celebrity worship than other races. Western culture is far more into the celebrity gossip and "groupie" thing than other cultures.
I hate to be captain obvious, but the answer is rather straightforward. Because black women are ugly as fvck. Sure, you can point out some light skinned "black" celebrity (with mainly non-African features) who is not ugly as fvck but that's just the exception that proves the rule. I don't mean to offend anyone but we all know it's true. So when a black guy who has status and money but not a lot of brains (i.e. your typical athlete) decides to wife up some ho, of course he's gonna go for some white gold digger.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I will agree with you that white women who are trailer trash, walmart whales, etc. are unattractive. However, there is still a fair number of attractive white women in North America, especially in larger metropolitan areas. Black women, on the other hand, are just not naturally beautiful. It's got nothing to do with class. Show me one purely African woman who is stunning. There aren't any. Most attractive "black" women are actually mixed race.Fatal Jay said:^
That's not true bro, I could make the same comparison to fat overweight white middle aged married woman or the same comparison to trailer park white woman, or compare to white girls who are drug addicts. (which are becoming the majority of America, fit in shape white girls are decreasing everyday)
I would gladly bang the first one but no one of the others, but Im into girls with very feminine and gentle traits, even most white women to me have too strong facial traits.Fatal Jay said:https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/...nqSi1Peo0Rvlw2SDXnSoLo_7RZDE7xVsDFoTiH3hIZCkJ
http://creativefan.com/important/cf...rstyles-for-black-women/african-hairstyle.jpg
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http://www.clairenadine.com/beautiful african ladies wear.jpg
and there is way more, since you say there is no dark skin beautiful women lol
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Your thinking comes from watching too much tv dude. You haven't been around the world or done any traveling if you think all black women are ugly bro. Get off the couch and go see the world sometime.
Their women. I don't mind.Malice said:What is predictabe and who cares if I am asking this question? Don't be over sensitive, you see it happening everywhere.
It's no different than asking why white men are marrying foreign women.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The truth is, white women are much more attractive. Black women, unless you look like Ciara or Floyd Mayweathers wife,Malice said:This is not to make a racist troll post or anything I was just wondering because both these guys did and they are awesome athletes, and I was just wondering.
Robert Griffin III
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Adam Jones Orioles
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Floyd Mayweathers wife is mixed. I never heard of Ciara but she says she's not black:Ken785 said:The truth is, white women are much more attractive. Black women, unless you look like Ciara or Floyd Mayweathers wife,
http://www.ihiphop.com/blog/this-is...you-get-that-floyd-mayweather-moneypictorial/
...arent very attractive.
He should have pimp slapped her on live TV.Fatal Jay said:Lol at that rg3 footage, that was really disrespectful of her.
None of those women are beautiful. They all lack the feminine features white women possess. Even if you painted them white like a white women but kept the underlying features they would still be ugly.Fatal Jay said:https://encrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com/...nqSi1Peo0Rvlw2SDXnSoLo_7RZDE7xVsDFoTiH3hIZCkJ
http://creativefan.com/important/cf...rstyles-for-black-women/african-hairstyle.jpg
http://ladybrillemag.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/oluchi.jpg
http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lvnwbqnESW1qkv5xyo1_500.jpg
http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lvnwbqnESW1qkv5xyo1_500.jpg
http://www.clairenadine.com/beautiful african ladies wear.jpg
and there is way more, since you say there is no dark skin beautiful women lol
http://media-cache-ec0.pinimg.com/236x/e3/cb/43/e3cb43e2332acb2c72d1253acb346f58.jpg
Your thinking comes from watching too much tv dude. You haven't been around the world or done any traveling if you think all black women are ugly bro. Get off the couch and go see the world sometime.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.