I really don't get it. 50% of marriage will end up in divorce in the United States. Divorce is costly and will lead to the man usually losing his house, possessions and kids. I'll cite this later but 90% of the time women will end up with the custody of the kids. Most of them will use the financial burdens of divorce to threaten the husband to stay married. After divorce many men willl have to pay child support and alimony. To me marriage is just a huge waste of money, the overpriced celebration, ring and honeymoon. Do you have to marry to have a loving relationship with someone? Obviously not since homosexuals have been living together without any court settlements afterwards. To me no marriage means no divorce = No paper work or lawyers screwing you over to take your house, prized possessions and kids.
Another huge reason to not getting married to an American women is the benefits. Back in the 1950s women were more "useful" they knew how to cook, clean, take care of kids and make things work. In most cases here the women don't do jack sh*t. While the husband spends 70-80 working she spends her time wasting money. At least if you marry a traditional foreign women she will hold her end of the bargain by looking after the house and you. Since she is grateful that you work to make sure that the two of you will have a successful life. American women usually don't contribute anything to the household. I've lived a bunch of different families and every single of them the couple are miserable.
I was listening to Tom Leykis' show and he said that women usually put up with the things she hates about the guy until they get married. That is a huge difference between a man and a women, the whole point in dating for guy is to see if the women is compatible with him in a long term relationship. Women on the other hand will mold to his liking until marriage. This completely screws the guy over, since after marriage the women changes completely. It's like getting married to a different person.
So will someone here please give me a good reason why American men continue to blindly marry to American women when they have absolute no benefit in the long run? Don't give me LOVE aka SEX in wo manese. It only costs 30 bucks in Asia.
Another huge reason to not getting married to an American women is the benefits. Back in the 1950s women were more "useful" they knew how to cook, clean, take care of kids and make things work. In most cases here the women don't do jack sh*t. While the husband spends 70-80 working she spends her time wasting money. At least if you marry a traditional foreign women she will hold her end of the bargain by looking after the house and you. Since she is grateful that you work to make sure that the two of you will have a successful life. American women usually don't contribute anything to the household. I've lived a bunch of different families and every single of them the couple are miserable.
I was listening to Tom Leykis' show and he said that women usually put up with the things she hates about the guy until they get married. That is a huge difference between a man and a women, the whole point in dating for guy is to see if the women is compatible with him in a long term relationship. Women on the other hand will mold to his liking until marriage. This completely screws the guy over, since after marriage the women changes completely. It's like getting married to a different person.
So will someone here please give me a good reason why American men continue to blindly marry to American women when they have absolute no benefit in the long run? Don't give me LOVE aka SEX in wo manese. It only costs 30 bucks in Asia.