Why do Americans still marry American women?

[Nip/Tuck]

I really don't get it. 50% of marriage will end up in divorce in the United States. Divorce is costly and will lead to the man usually losing his house, possessions and kids. I'll cite this later but 90% of the time women will end up with the custody of the kids. Most of them will use the financial burdens of divorce to threaten the husband to stay married. After divorce many men willl have to pay child support and alimony. To me marriage is just a huge waste of money, the overpriced celebration, ring and honeymoon. Do you have to marry to have a loving relationship with someone? Obviously not since homosexuals have been living together without any court settlements afterwards. To me no marriage means no divorce = No paper work or lawyers screwing you over to take your house, prized possessions and kids.

Another huge reason to not getting married to an American women is the benefits. Back in the 1950s women were more "useful" they knew how to cook, clean, take care of kids and make things work. In most cases here the women don't do jack sh*t. While the husband spends 70-80 working she spends her time wasting money. At least if you marry a traditional foreign women she will hold her end of the bargain by looking after the house and you. Since she is grateful that you work to make sure that the two of you will have a successful life. American women usually don't contribute anything to the household. I've lived a bunch of different families and every single of them the couple are miserable.

I was listening to Tom Leykis' show and he said that women usually put up with the things she hates about the guy until they get married. That is a huge difference between a man and a women, the whole point in dating for guy is to see if the women is compatible with him in a long term relationship. Women on the other hand will mold to his liking until marriage. This completely screws the guy over, since after marriage the women changes completely. It's like getting married to a different person.

So will someone here please give me a good reason why American men continue to blindly marry to American women when they have absolute no benefit in the long run? Don't give me LOVE aka SEX in wo manese. It only costs 30 bucks in Asia.

 

[Suicide]

Are you an American?

And I've met plenty of foreign women who are total dog****.

 

[HandyAndy]

What more beneficial to marrying a foreign woman rather than an american one? whats your point?

 

[Nip/Tuck]

Are you an American?

And I've met plenty of foreign women who are total dog****.

Yes you can find b*tches in foreign countries too. But unlike the other countries the court system isn't so screwed up to support women all the time. Also I'm talking about majority here. You have to admit most foreign women are more "useful" than American women who usually doesn't do anything for themselves. Also me being an American or not is totally irrelevant to the topic. If I say I'm not American are you going to throw in some racist remarks about my country? Stop living in the matrix, American women are 90% cr*p. They spend their teenage years parting, doing drugs and when they turn 30-50 they expect men to marry them. What's astounding is that you guys actually think these women are hot.

 

[Ken785]

you dont...go live overseas and live for like a year, maybe teach english abroad somewhere... it'll change your life and you'll meet and a lot of loyal women, just make sure they're just not out for the green card.

does anybody know...when you get married to a foreign woman...is there anyway to uphold the green card process for like, i don't know...10 years or so to make sure the woman you married just doesn't want the green card??

i mean...so within 10 years if she doesn't act right, you still have power over her and you can just deport her...because i know this one situation where someone i know married a foreigner and she threatened to leave his AFC as$ now that she has a green card. what a b!tch.

 

[Nip/Tuck]

you dont...go live overseas and live for like a year, maybe teach english abroad somewhere... it'll change your life and you'll meet and a lot of loyal women, just make sure they're just not out for the green card.

does anybody know...when you get married to a foreign woman...is there anyway to uphold the green card process for like, i don't know...10 years or so to make sure the woman you married just doesn't want the green card??

i mean...so within 10 years if she doesn't act right, you still have power over her and you can just deport her...because i know this one situation where someone i know married a foreigner and she threatened to leave his AFC as$ now that she has a green card. what a b!tch.

You know why it takes 10 years for foreign women to get a green card? Since jealous American feminist want to limit the supply of quality women. Since they know they can't compete. It's like tariffs in business, you make it so outside competition will stay out of your country.

 

[jazzmaster2]

Come on, European women are just as useless in the home if you spoil 'em to death, which us men always do.
Now, Asia and Africa are completely different. Women there are not obsessed over being so-called feminist or be like men to define their lifestyles. I tend to think they're wiser than American women in so many different aspects.

America has gotten the concept of feminism all wrong from the start. Free love and all that crap don't amount to women and men being equal. 30 years, we can see that.
Think about it, guys. There are already female leaders all around the world, but we still make a big deal about it here.

 

[Ken785]

You know why it takes 10 years for foreign women to get a green card? Since jealous American feminist want to limit the supply of quality women. Since they know they can't compete. It's like tariffs in business, you make it so outside competition will stay out of your country.

the only feminists women out there are the ones who are ugly...thats why they're feminists. its because they're feminists that we don't want them...who needs another man around the house? women are always complaining for us to "be a man!"...then why don't you "be a woman" and go clean up the house and cook me a steak b!tch!

 

[Suicide]

Sorry, I've lived in other countries and I don't buy any of it. Choose your women carefully no matter where you are.

Also, just because a social norm in whatever country dictates that your woman just sucks it up and takes it and goes about her "duties" does not mean she has to be happy doing it, or with you.

And if you're not American or have lived in America for an extended period of time, you have no credibility to comment on American women, period. So it is relevant.

 

[Ken785]

Sorry, I've lived in other countries and I don't buy any of it. Choose your women carefully no matter where you are.

Also, just because a social norm in whatever country dictates that your woman just sucks it up and takes it and goes about her "duties" does not mean she has to be happy doing it, or with you.

And if you're not American or have lived in America for an extended period of time, you have no credibility to comment on American women, period. So it is relevant.

thats not what im really trying to say...im saying that at least they don't try to play with your emotions or mind fvck you or are attention wh0res like American woman are...

id treat my wife with total respect...wouldn't make her feel like a slave.

As long as she isn't b!tchy or naggy like American Women...Nip/Tuck is right...it was much simpler in the 50s...now women are crap....woman are are always saying they want to man with success and goals and stuff...what do they have to offer?? maybe fake titties if your lucky...but thats all they are...i'll be interested in a real relationship when you can tell me you have more to offer me and tit and as$ which will eventually grow old and saggy overtime.

 

[Suicide]

thats not what im really trying to say...im saying that at least they don't try to play with your emotions or mind fvck you or are attention wh0res like American woman are...

Go live in Tokyo for a year and tell me you don't meet a TON of totally ****ed up, supposedly "perfect" Japanese girls (since people tend to think they're the pinnacle of good wives)...they're all over the world, buddy. Country makes no difference.

 

[Ken785]

Go live in Tokyo for a year and tell me you don't meet a TON of totally ****ed up, supposedly "perfect" Japanese girls (since people tend to think they're the pinnacle of good wives)...they're all over the world, buddy. Country makes no difference.

i should probably clear this up...WESTERNIZED and 1st world cultures...woman are like that....in other countries my experience was different...maybe its just the woman I've met...im pretty sure there are some fvcked up woman everywhere, but for the most part most of them live in westernized and fully developed nations.

 

[meitenesrigas]

Go live in Tokyo for a year and tell me you don't meet a TON of totally ****ed up, supposedly "perfect" Japanese girls (since people tend to think they're the pinnacle of good wives)...they're all over the world, buddy. Country makes no difference.

Japan! Are you crazy? That is one of the wealthiest countries on earth. Those girls are all raised as spoiled brats who spend thousands of dollars a year on the hottest and most limited clothing. The older Japanese generation is totally different from the new generation. The new generation is all about having a good time. Now, I have never dated one but I am sure they are still a thousand times better than American/British female who has become impossible to even be around.

Most of you guys would go crazy if you went to the Former Soviet Union. I guess that is called Second World. I am not talking about the ritzy parts of cities like Moscow or Kyiv. I am talking about in the suburbs. The key is that the local guys are jerks who NEVER compliment girls. If you compliment them some will actually start to cry. It can be a beautiful girl that guys in the West jerk off to and NOBODY has ever told her that she is pretty. Rough place for girls. Plus, the local guys are not romantics. Those girls eat that stuff up like you can't believe. Money is always important, but sometimes girls just want a guy to look at them. Yes, the most beautiful girls I have ever seen get few looks from the local guys (foreign guys - different story). If you really want someone who will fall for your BS I would advise heading to a town about 45 minutes by bus from the capital city. That way you are not getting a total hick, but you are also not getting a girl that is around a lot of foreign guys in her town.

What makes the American female so bad? (1) Attitude. Even Western European girls will give you a chance. American females are the most arrogant beasts on the planet. (2) They are ugly. Not so much a case of bad genetics, but more a case of too little movement. Guys do everything for them. They don't have to lift a finger. In the 1980's at least American girls were mostly thin. (3) Style. Flip-flops, no makeup, shorts, etc. They are also the loudest things around. They make British guys seem reserved. They also don't know how to sit. They always seem to put their feet up on something or else they sit with their legs spread wide apart. (4) You! Yes, you. All this coveting of females crap has caused them to become the most arrogant fools on the planet. Thank you DJ's. The more you dress up in your furry hats the better off the rest of us are far far away. (5) Society. Feminism. The Sexual Revolution. They never had those in the Former Soviet Union. You think Krushev would have put up with a bunch of ugly women burning their bras? I am sure a few tried it. Then they were killed. The Soviets were ultra-conservative in their views on most social issues. Homosexuality was immediate death. Females were given medals for having a certain number of babies. I could go on.

I don't care what you like. It can be African, Lithuanian, Indonesian, Italian,etc. However, any of them will beat what is at home. Now, all bets are off if you bring them home. Oh yeah, immigrants and foreign students don't count! So don't tell me about meeting some Ukrainian student at an American university. Not the same.

Someone always brings up the high divorce rate in certain Eastern European countries. When you get married at 17 to a guy that drinks, has no income, and beats the s*** out of you I say you should leave as well. That is the one place where I will take the female's side 90% of the time. I can't imagine living with some of the guys you see.

Finally, in saying all of this I will say that people are people. There are jerks, tramps, thieves, nutcases, and scammers all over the place. This includes girls in your own neighborhood. This also includes girls in countries that you can't even find on a map. My suggestion is that you don't go looking for girls in discos or bars. Especially not expat bars. You would be surprised by the number of high-earning expats who can't stay away from the tall 17 year old girl who flirts with him at some high priced Irish themed pub.

And please don't believe the propaganda about all these girls being scammers. Like I said, people are people. I simply judge people by the trends I spot.

I would also say that American/Canadian guys are tops. At least that is what I hear girls say. It has little to do with money. Both groups are thought of as being sincere and interested in more than just easy sex. The British have a reputation for being drunk and loud.

 

[Ken785]

what are "expats" exactly?

 

[Centaurion]

what are "expats" exactly?

Ex-patriots - people who reside in other countries than their own.

 

[Ken785]

Ex-patriots - people who reside in other countries than their own.

what if i wasnt born in that country? for example...

if a mexican dude was born in America and lives in America...does that mean he's an expat of Mexico?

 

[Suicide]

No.

An expat is someone who (generally) was raised in their home country and now resides in another country. I don't believe it applies quite the same way to children who are actually raised in a foreign country, either.

 

[Ken785]

No.

An expat is someone who (generally) was raised in their home country and now resides in another country. I don't believe it applies quite the same way to children who are actually raised in a foreign country, either.

if the Mexican guys HOME country would be Mexico and not America even though he was born in America? Then i don't think anyones home country is America since we all immigrated here from somewhere...

 

[Suicide]

Your home country is the country YOU are born in.

 

[Centaurion]

Ex-pats are generally retired people from say England that live in Thailand.