victor von doom
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Please explain this to me, oh cowardly moderators.
This wasn't even about actual politics.
This wasn't even about actual politics.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
And you call yourself "civil".Originally posted by victor von doom
Crusader, you have got to be one the most sanctimonious little pvssies I have ever had the displeasure to interact with.
Nothing of the sort.Hiding behind the moderators' skirts now are we?
There is no reason to be civil anymore. Especially with someone I don't respect. The thread is closed remember? Therefore I am free to express what I really feel about you. Unless of course, the mods delete this too.Originally posted by Crusader
And you call yourself "civil".![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Oh ain't that nice? In the thread where you encourage people to go to anther website, you claimed to be "civil" but now you changed your thoughts. "There is no reason to be civil anymore." You're like a woman who can't make up her mind.Originally posted by victor von doom
There is no reason to be civil anymore. Especially with someone I don't respect.![]()