“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why did you choose your current or previous partner

CornbreadFed

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Was it because of looks, sex, peace of mind, convenience(she did most of the chasing), compatibility with your current life, she brought things to the table, and etc? Of course you can pick more than one, but try and limit yourself to two. If you are single now, why did y’all break up?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

OngBak

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Was it because of looks, sex, peace of mind, convenience(she did most of the chasing), compatibility with your current life, she brought things to the table, and etc? Of course you can pick more than one, but try and limit yourself to two. If you are single now, why did y’all break up?
Good connection, same values, she doesn't play games, peace of mind, feminine and loving, respectful, sane she has common sense, fun to be with, can see through the bs of feminists and all other type of bs, not fooled easily, smart, sex whenever I want, she enjoys my hobbies, basically the jackpot in the male Universe
 

Manure Spherian

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1. Caring, very thoughtful.
2. Moral.
3. Super into making a home and raising children.
4. Good family with involved in-laws.
5. Not a feminist.
6. Aligned values.
7. Similar class.
8. Blond hair and blue eyes (features I wanted in children).
9. Intelligent.
10. Responsible.
 

BaronOfHair

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Beautiful, sexually energetic, fun to be around. That's all I require
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Augustus_McCrae

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Was it because of looks, sex, peace of mind, convenience(she did most of the chasing), compatibility with your current life, she brought things to the table, and etc? Of course you can pick more than one, but try and limit yourself to two. If you are single now, why did y’all break up?
Because she’s as emotionally stable as a woman can be and low drama.

-Augustus-
 

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Was it because of looks, sex, peace of mind, convenience(she did most of the chasing), compatibility with your current life, she brought things to the table, and etc? Of course you can pick more than one, but try and limit yourself to two. If you are single now, why did y’all break up?
a match in looks, great sex, we enjoy our fun times, and we support each other during tough times.

we allow space for each other to grow. we make each other laugh. we also build each other up. most of all, we persist because we believe it's all worth it.
 

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My previous ltr broke up with me, it was for the best as I was never "all in" with her. As for my current woman, I could make a very long list, but Im gonna limit it to compatibility and Peace of Mind.
 

The Duke

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Her looks drew me in, but it was her rational brain and "support your man" attitude that sealed the deal. She has old school Mexican values.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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Was it because of looks, sex, peace of mind, convenience(she did most of the chasing), compatibility with your current life, she brought things to the table, and etc? Of course you can pick more than one, but try and limit yourself to two. If you are single now, why did y’all break up?
Few people choose anything. We get with whoever we can get with and then post rationalize everything about why we thought we chose.
 
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