"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why did she let me kiss her on the first day of meeting her?
- Thread starter knight56
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Well of course they're going to call you a liar. I mean, for as long as you've been a member of this forum, you've done nothing but say:
I mean, most of these posts are pretty recent. I can definitely understand why people would say you're lying about those pictures - you go from months and months of doing nothing but asking people about fat girls and then post a picture of some normal to slender little girl that you supposedly met off of the computer - yet happen to have a good number of pictures of that were obviously taken by someone a little closer to her than someone she's just met. Hmm..
Considering you said that these were pictures of a black woman, no. I mean, if you're going to pull fake pictures from a chick's homepage and tell people that you supposedly took them, at least get the ethnicity of the person right.Originally posted by knight56
So you saying i did not take this pics??
Now I'm curious to see just what you look like. It seems pretty amazing you went from chubby-chaser to ultimate DJ almost overnight. Let's see ya.
Iam not saying that iam a DJ master. I still love fat chicks and skinny chicks dude.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No offense, but I'm pretty sure you'd love any girl that would let you love her. I mean, look at the posts you've made. Now you expect us to believe that you've really gone from only being able to pick up 300 pound whales to 110 lb HB's? Let's see some verification - since you're the one who took them, it shouldn't be any problem whatsoever for you to take a few pictures with her next time you see her. Why not put two fingers up in a V for "victory" in the pic, showing all of us on the forum who are calling you out on your lies just how wrong we are...
Now, let's see that picture of you.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
1. Why on earth would her pic be on the net?
2. Most girls pics arent on the net?
3. Next time you should be in the pic with her
4. Your previous posts.
(Implying that you did in fact take the pictures)Originally posted by knight56
So you saying i did not take this pics??
(Trying to backpedal your way out of a lie when asked for verification that should be simple for you to acquire if you did actually know the girl in question)
(Trying to justify backpedaling - obviously nobody could call you a liar if you posted pictures of yourself and her together)
By the way, read what Don Joffe wrote - he's right. Don't try to be something you're not. Attempting to increase your internet popularity by lying about things is self-defeating. Even if you manage to fool people, it doesn't affect them. The only person that's suffering is you. Now get up and go try to find a girl that really does look like the chick you posted and talk to her! You might get rejected, but it's experience... perhaps one day you can come back in here and post real pictures and really have good advice to give people!
... best of luck...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.