"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why did she let me kiss her on the first day of meeting her?
- Thread starter knight56
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Well of course they're going to call you a liar. I mean, for as long as you've been a member of this forum, you've done nothing but say:
I mean, most of these posts are pretty recent. I can definitely understand why people would say you're lying about those pictures - you go from months and months of doing nothing but asking people about fat girls and then post a picture of some normal to slender little girl that you supposedly met off of the computer - yet happen to have a good number of pictures of that were obviously taken by someone a little closer to her than someone she's just met. Hmm..
Considering you said that these were pictures of a black woman, no. I mean, if you're going to pull fake pictures from a chick's homepage and tell people that you supposedly took them, at least get the ethnicity of the person right.Originally posted by knight56
So you saying i did not take this pics??
Now I'm curious to see just what you look like. It seems pretty amazing you went from chubby-chaser to ultimate DJ almost overnight. Let's see ya.
Iam not saying that iam a DJ master. I still love fat chicks and skinny chicks dude.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No offense, but I'm pretty sure you'd love any girl that would let you love her. I mean, look at the posts you've made. Now you expect us to believe that you've really gone from only being able to pick up 300 pound whales to 110 lb HB's? Let's see some verification - since you're the one who took them, it shouldn't be any problem whatsoever for you to take a few pictures with her next time you see her. Why not put two fingers up in a V for "victory" in the pic, showing all of us on the forum who are calling you out on your lies just how wrong we are...
Now, let's see that picture of you.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
1. Why on earth would her pic be on the net?
2. Most girls pics arent on the net?
3. Next time you should be in the pic with her
4. Your previous posts.
(Implying that you did in fact take the pictures)Originally posted by knight56
So you saying i did not take this pics??
(Trying to backpedal your way out of a lie when asked for verification that should be simple for you to acquire if you did actually know the girl in question)
(Trying to justify backpedaling - obviously nobody could call you a liar if you posted pictures of yourself and her together)
By the way, read what Don Joffe wrote - he's right. Don't try to be something you're not. Attempting to increase your internet popularity by lying about things is self-defeating. Even if you manage to fool people, it doesn't affect them. The only person that's suffering is you. Now get up and go try to find a girl that really does look like the chick you posted and talk to her! You might get rejected, but it's experience... perhaps one day you can come back in here and post real pictures and really have good advice to give people!
... best of luck...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.