"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why did she do this??????

MVick173

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iight, me and thsi girl were suppose to go out and chill yestaurday, she said she was hungry on the phone so I told her lets go eat.. she said alright but she gotta ask her moms. so I said wen you get home call me.. she didn't call me back.. and we didn't chill..should I next her or wat?? I didn't liek the fact she didn't call me back and let me know she ciuldn't go.. you know atleast call me back and tell me you can't go, but she didn't and I'm a lil madd. wat should I do??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LikRetsam

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heh. It's simple. If she doesn't call you or talk to you about it. let it slide like nothing happened. If she does bring it up and tries to appologize just say np, I went with (Insert some other chick's name) and I had a great time.

Lik
 

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Or you could not lie to make yourself look a DJ. **** it man. She probably either;

A. Doesn't like you.
B. Was'nt in the mood to go get something to eat (despite what she said)
C. Forogt about it

Any of those ways make absolutlely no difference. It was most likely B. She probably claimed to be hungry to make conversation, then when you made the move she realized her mistake, made the excuse to ask her mom to get of the phone, then didn't call you back because she didn't know what to say.

I don't even know why you're worried, you should have enough reason to not care.
 

Ace of Spades

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But please dude, learn to spell. It does not make you look tougher to speak ebonics, let alone to type it.

So just knock that sh!t off.

Not just you, but every single person on every single website that does that pisses me off.
 

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She didnt make enough time for you, dont make time for her

Unless she gives a legitimate reason why she didnt call....FUKK HER
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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high nrg

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Originally posted by MVick173
. . . she gotta ask her moms.
she has more than one mom?

i hate those feminist lesbians.

they always have them talk at my school cuz the administration is scared of homophobia at my catholic all guys school.

...getting back on subject. just stop talking to her if u arent friends. and if u are, you shouldnt have been asking her out in the first place. if she wanted to see you she'll talk to u.
 

RaMar

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i think you are over reacting. I would be mad too but don't make such a big deal out of it.
 

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Re: Re: why did she do this??????

Originally posted by high nrg
she has more than one mom?
hahahaahahahahahahahahahahaahaha!



Whoa, "Revelation" analysed the situation real nice.... seems a very likely explanation for what the girl did (although I dont know why she couldnt just call him and say she couldnt go, or didnt feel like it).

Time to get over it.
 
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