Why did she block me? did I come off too hard? date rapport

[TheGambino]

I number closed this girl 2 years ago, we dated once and had a drink, fun time but nothing happened. After that we lost contact and months later I asked her out and she flaked. Deleted her number. 1 year later (2 days ago) I see her in a club. I was dancing and having fun and at the end of the night I approach her, we smoke a cigarette and we talk for a bit, I asked her to join me for drinks at my place but she declines after clubbing. She saves my number.

Next day she texts me what im doing. I didnt have her number. I told her im busy but I could pick her up for drinks in the evening. I pick her up and go straight to my place (told her we could buy tickets for a good party on my laptop). The door tickets were out of stock so we decide we chill at my place and we have a couple of drinks.

I put up some music and we talk about our lifes and I flirt a lot. She seemed attracted, getting close to me and after a while I put my hand on her shoulders and she lays her head on my shoulder. I kino heavily and go down to her ass with my hands. After a bit we make out heavily and I was horney af. We were kissing for hours and I was touching her titties but she says I can't have s3x with you so early. (first date, asd)

I keep trying to get her horney, sniffing her neck making out, getting on top of her and kissing her neck and all that. I came off really really hard because that's what I always do and she likes it. I unzipp her bra and suck her titties hard, keep kissing, and we switch positions and f8ck her a bit with clothes on to get her so wet to put her clothes off. She says I really want to f8ck you but I can't, Im not doing it on the first date. I tried one more time getting her to stand up and walk to my bedroom but at the door she pulls back.

She tells me she can't stay for the night and that her friend is home alone and she was only planning on a drink and going back to her friend (female friend ofcourse). She has no bf or guy in her life she claims.

She asks me to take her home soon but I drunk alcohol so she says my friend can pick me up too.

Her friend comes to pick her up and we kiss for about 20mins until her friend picks her up. I checked her whatsapp again one more time before going to sleep, I could she her time and everything. Now in the morning it seems like she blocked me. Can't see the time she looked for the last time and she didn't receive my text so its obvious she blocked me im kinda sure...

Did I came off to hard?

 

[TheGambino]

Update: She's online on whatsapp. I texted her in the morning if she went out again and if she had fun. She didn't replie, but she's online didn't block me.

Yes I shouldn't text her the next morning and yes I am spinning plates...

 

[marmel75]

Update: She's online on whatsapp. I texted her in the morning if she went out again and if she had fun. She didn't replie, but she's online didn't block me.

Yes I shouldn't text her the next morning and yes I am spinning plates...

Why do you care and why do you need her approval?

 

[Poon King]

Why do you care and why do you need her approval?

Exactly.

Stop letting this b!tch lead. Your dignity is always more important than anything a b!tch can offer you.

No man with any self-respect is going to disrespect himself for a woman’s approval (or anyone’s approval).

 

[CMNILS87]

You should really think about writing erotic literature, because that's what I felt I was reading. Too much worrying about this chick I suppose, you probably came off too sex starved and desperate.

 

[BeExcellent]

She liked you but she sees (reads you as) that you only want sex. She doesn't want to be pumped and dumped or feel like a cheap object.

So she will ignore you because she has other men who are more nuanced and don't make her feel this way.

Women do not like to feel used. You can escalate all you want and maybe she will go along with it (like this girl did). But in the end she rejected you because SHE doesn't want to feel used.

This means you are not nearly as charming or smooth as you think you are. Even a very handsome man will get rejected if the girl feels he is only using her for sex.

So now after the fact you see the rejection. Which means "Ah ha...you want sex but don't care about me as a person? No thanks."

There are so many threads like this on this forum. Use kino and teasing & touch to build sexual tension. It is a patient, non thirsty, refined approach.

Pushing incessantly for sex is the most desperate thirsty thing you can do & she reads it as complete objectification and it is a turn off.

Leave HER wanting more as opposed to pushing you off a dry hump session and trying to get away from you (which she was trying to do very subtly.)

Total teen age mistake. Sorry to be so very blunt but I'm telling you the truth.

 

[CMNILS87]

Literally dry humped a woman on date 1 recently.

Shagged her on date 2. I now keep her as a high-interest ("quality woman") plate.

Your nonsense only works on beta males that have no experience. Your experience as a man is zero.



The answer here is not to become a "refined man" (beta-male), as that woman describes.

It is to have options.

I get girls ghost me sometimes. I don't come here and complain.

That is because there are 10 more on the street tomorrow. Try to improve your abundance.

Do not allow one woman blocking you on whatssapp to start doubting yourself.

Next.

Cmon though, there's last minute resistance that you can push through... then there's the what ever the hell happened there. That's just him reading the situation wrong

 

[Bayne05]

Usually when I bump into old plates that didn't work out we end up fvcking on the first date, which means she did want to fvck the last time but she was too busy playing games.

In your case she clearly she wants more than just sex, after 2years and she still acts this way proves she's serious. There's always that one girl you can't game into having sex with you.

 

[TheGambino]

She ignored a message and a call so weird.. im going nc

 

[TheGambino]

She texts me. ''hey you called? I was working and went to the gym after that so I couldnt pick up, im home now..'' so she was sh1t testing me with ignoring the call and im probably back in game now... Ill text her back tommorow in the afternoon and try to pin down another date

 

[devilkingx2]

I number closed this girl 2 years ago, we dated once and had a drink, fun time but nothing happened. After that we lost contact and months later I asked her out and she flaked. Deleted her number. 1 year later (2 days ago) I see her in a club. I was dancing and having fun and at the end of the night I approach her, we smoke a cigarette and we talk for a bit, I asked her to join me for drinks at my place but she declines after clubbing. She saves my number.

Next day she texts me what im doing. I didnt have her number. I told her im busy but I could pick her up for drinks in the evening. I pick her up and go straight to my place (told her we could buy tickets for a good party on my laptop). The door tickets were out of stock so we decide we chill at my place and we have a couple of drinks.

I put up some music and we talk about our lifes and I flirt a lot. She seemed attracted, getting close to me and after a while I put my hand on her shoulders and she lays her head on my shoulder. I kino heavily and go down to her ass with my hands. After a bit we make out heavily and I was horney af. We were kissing for hours and I was touching her titties but she says I can't have s3x with you so early. (first date, asd)

I keep trying to get her horney, sniffing her neck making out, getting on top of her and kissing her neck and all that. I came off really really hard because that's what I always do and she likes it. I unzipp her bra and suck her titties hard, keep kissing, and we switch positions and f8ck her a bit with clothes on to get her so wet to put her clothes off. She says I really want to f8ck you but I can't, Im not doing it on the first date. I tried one more time getting her to stand up and walk to my bedroom but at the door she pulls back.

She tells me she can't stay for the night and that her friend is home alone and she was only planning on a drink and going back to her friend (female friend ofcourse). She has no bf or guy in her life she claims.

She asks me to take her home soon but I drunk alcohol so she says my friend can pick me up too.

Her friend comes to pick her up and we kiss for about 20mins until her friend picks her up. I checked her whatsapp again one more time before going to sleep, I could she her time and everything. Now in the morning it seems like she blocked me. Can't see the time she looked for the last time and she didn't receive my text so its obvious she blocked me im kinda sure...

Did I came off to hard?

sounds like she didn't want to fvck no matter what so it didn't happen, you win some you lose some.

if you manage to get her out again then she just didn't want to fvck then and there and you'll probably get laid next time, if you can't get her out again then she just didn't want you at all, sry bro.

 

[Trump]

It's getting to the point that the posts are so detailed, thought out and to the point, start to wonder if they are all made up.