So I went to this party at my friend's spot tonight and then me and my boy went to the bars real quick. We got real nice there and went back to the party. We were having a good time there, and this girl pulled me in and was like "let's dance". I was like alright, so we started dancing. We got pretty close, I was feeling her legs and stuff and she moved my hands up cause her friends were around. Her friends went upstairs and she stayed with me. We danced some more then her friends came back and she said she was going to another party and someone was driving her. I asked "does that mean I cannot come?". She said "no...i don't know if we can fit all of us in the car". I was like "oh I see." But when she was leaving i grabbed her hand and she started leading me outside but let go of my hand when we had to cross a bunch of people. I let go and went outside with her but stayed on the porch with my friends. I tried to play hard to get and she left. Why did I **** up so bad? I just cannot pull through with a random hookup. Dammit!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why did I mess up so bad???
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