"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why Did I Get This reaction from a car passing by (posting from the road)

Dante420

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Posting on my phone on the highway, but before I got on the high way. There was a car full of girls that were goin crazy driving by me. I'm no celebrity look alike but these girls were goin crazy. I don't even value my looks more than my game. I'm just sittin in a car, chewing on a straw and the passenger looked over and was. Clearly noticin me, then I caught up to them in traffic again. When I looked over the whole car was all turned heads goin crazy wavin. I just couldn't help but smile
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls usually do that stuff if they are in the mood and just want the attention of guys. Maybe they thought you were handsome but that's usually not the basis for that kind of behavior; just the attention.
 

JCballin88

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I think a lot of chicks just decide to do this spontaneously for fun when emotions are running high. Usually it's not because they like you, they just want to see what kind of reaction they'll get by doing something unexpected.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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