"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why can't I seem to hook up lately?

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John_Smith

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Same thread just need new title.

I don't understand why I could get such a low ratio of (just dates too!) dates/number of times I ask (1/4) when I have high status and looks. What the hell is wrong?....

I am not getting many dates but I always hear "this girl likes you blah blah blah". I'm cute and have status and everything, but for some reason whenever I message someone to see a movie, I almost always get either "I have a bf" or no response at all.

Completely don't understand....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maybe I misunderstood, but are you texting to ask these women out on a date? Try calling instead of texting.

Also realize that you're posting this on the wrong forum.
 
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Doesn't everyone have dry spells? Many people on this board have posited the theory that women are most attracted to you when you have other women available, almost as if they have a sixth sense about who's getting the poon. Or more likely, you yourself come across as more confident, less desperate, etc. when you have other available women.

The only advice I can really give you is stop caring about it.
 
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