"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why can't I seem to hook up lately?

John_Smith

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Same thread just need new title.

I don't understand why I could get such a low ratio of (just dates too!) dates/number of times I ask (1/4) when I have high status and looks. What the hell is wrong?....

I am not getting many dates but I always hear "this girl likes you blah blah blah". I'm cute and have status and everything, but for some reason whenever I message someone to see a movie, I almost always get either "I have a bf" or no response at all.

Completely don't understand....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shiftkey

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Maybe I misunderstood, but are you texting to ask these women out on a date? Try calling instead of texting.

Also realize that you're posting this on the wrong forum.
 

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Doesn't everyone have dry spells? Many people on this board have posited the theory that women are most attracted to you when you have other women available, almost as if they have a sixth sense about who's getting the poon. Or more likely, you yourself come across as more confident, less desperate, etc. when you have other available women.

The only advice I can really give you is stop caring about it.
 
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