"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why can't I seem to hook up lately?

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John_Smith

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Same thread just need new title.

I don't understand why I could get such a low ratio of (just dates too!) dates/number of times I ask (1/4) when I have high status and looks. What the hell is wrong?....

I am not getting many dates but I always hear "this girl likes you blah blah blah". I'm cute and have status and everything, but for some reason whenever I message someone to see a movie, I almost always get either "I have a bf" or no response at all.

Completely don't understand....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maybe I misunderstood, but are you texting to ask these women out on a date? Try calling instead of texting.

Also realize that you're posting this on the wrong forum.
 
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Doesn't everyone have dry spells? Many people on this board have posited the theory that women are most attracted to you when you have other women available, almost as if they have a sixth sense about who's getting the poon. Or more likely, you yourself come across as more confident, less desperate, etc. when you have other available women.

The only advice I can really give you is stop caring about it.
 
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