"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why can't I let go of BPD ex

Infern0

Infern0

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Yeah failed again.

BTW this is a 100% diagnosed, had some therapy, medicated, suicide attempts the whole deal.

I KNOW the drill, ended up getting almost suckered into another recycle with her but luckily she flared up pretty quickly so I gtfo but im left with that drained feeling you always get.

My problem is that after a while of NC I tend to forget what she's really like and so when she comes calling I talk to her and before you know it you are in the dream land again.

I end up reading stuff on the BPD family forum and feeling sorry for her and that she's not just a souless monster.

I can't have NC because I work with her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lozboss

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And this children is why you:

1. Don't date Exs
2. Don't date co workers
 
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