"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why can't I let go of BPD ex

Infern0

Infern0

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Yeah failed again.

BTW this is a 100% diagnosed, had some therapy, medicated, suicide attempts the whole deal.

I KNOW the drill, ended up getting almost suckered into another recycle with her but luckily she flared up pretty quickly so I gtfo but im left with that drained feeling you always get.

My problem is that after a while of NC I tend to forget what she's really like and so when she comes calling I talk to her and before you know it you are in the dream land again.

I end up reading stuff on the BPD family forum and feeling sorry for her and that she's not just a souless monster.

I can't have NC because I work with her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lozboss

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And this children is why you:

1. Don't date Exs
2. Don't date co workers
 
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