Why can't i just do it?!?!

[Viper423]

Ok, so I have all of the information that i need in my head. I have read the entire dj bible and countless articles, newsletters, and posts. I have improved on my looks and a lot of my female friends tell me that i'm hot. The problem is that I can never talk to a girl I don't know even if she's giving me all the signals.

Here's what just happened to me. I went to see a movie with a few of my friends and there were these 3 hot girls there too. The whole time, before, during, and after the movie this one girl and i were making eye contact and smiling at each other. i told myself that i would talk to her and get her number after the movie. For some strange reason I couldn't grab my balls to do it. I mean, after the movie as we were walking out we even made long eye contact and smiled at each other again but i didn't make a move to talk to her.

This always happens to me. Sometimes I'm lucky enough that my looks can get me by and the girl actually initiates the convo and such with me. But this girl was giving me every possible signal in the book and i still didn't make a move. Could it have been fear of rejection? I wish I knew, but I want to talk to girls so badly and date and I sure as hell don't want to be single the rest of my life.
What can i do to overcome this shyness and start talking to these hbs to get dates and maybe even a girlfriend soon? I've read everything and all the knowledge is in my head, i just can't do the physical part for some reason.

 

[Seeph]

It's not that some have the will power to change and others do not.. its that some are ready to change and others aren't.

Do you want someone here to feed you with what to say via an earpeace as you approach girls? You already stated the problem

I couldn't grab my balls

So fix it.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Visualize yourself doing it.

Repeat as often as it takes.

 

[Nice_no_more]

Sup. I'd suggest that if you really can't start the conversation with the girl, you should get more used to talking with strangers. Practice with ugly chicks, fat chicks, whatever. It doesn't matter with them anyway, right. After talking to enough people and socializing you'll gain your confidence so that you approach any babe naturally.