"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why can't I get them?

adit

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Seriously,I'm getting angry.I'm pretty good at making out with girls.I can kiss girls just like that,I have no problem with all that.

But I can't get a girlfriend.I've made out 6 times (with different girls) in the past 2 months but I can never take it to the next level..I mean,I can't get a girlfriend.I really wanna get one whom I can take everywhere I go,but I just can't get it.

Do you guys wish you had my problem?Like being able to make out but not being able to get a girl?Really,this sucks.Making out doesn't seem that fun anymore (I dont wanna have sex right now btw).Don't wish for it.

What do I do?I can flirt,I'm very funny,I'm one of the 'known' guys at school.But girlfriend?None.I had one 6 months back who was stolen.Yeah,boo for me.

What to do?Suppose I'm making out with this girl,and I wanna have her as my girl.What do I say/do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Taviii

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adit said:
Do you guys wish you had my problem?Like being able to make out but not being able to get a girl?Really,this sucks.Making out doesn't seem that fun anymore (I dont wanna have sex right now btw).Don't wish for it.
No, I dont, I have girlfriends, I make out and I have sex.

You have given too little details, so its hard to give advice, but here is how I transform makeout girls in girlfriends: I ask for the fvcking phonenumber and go on dates with them!!!!

What can be so hard about this?
 

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Who knows. I guess a follow up seems beyond some people.
 
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