"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why can't I get them?

adit

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Seriously,I'm getting angry.I'm pretty good at making out with girls.I can kiss girls just like that,I have no problem with all that.

But I can't get a girlfriend.I've made out 6 times (with different girls) in the past 2 months but I can never take it to the next level..I mean,I can't get a girlfriend.I really wanna get one whom I can take everywhere I go,but I just can't get it.

Do you guys wish you had my problem?Like being able to make out but not being able to get a girl?Really,this sucks.Making out doesn't seem that fun anymore (I dont wanna have sex right now btw).Don't wish for it.

What do I do?I can flirt,I'm very funny,I'm one of the 'known' guys at school.But girlfriend?None.I had one 6 months back who was stolen.Yeah,boo for me.

What to do?Suppose I'm making out with this girl,and I wanna have her as my girl.What do I say/do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Taviii

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adit said:
Do you guys wish you had my problem?Like being able to make out but not being able to get a girl?Really,this sucks.Making out doesn't seem that fun anymore (I dont wanna have sex right now btw).Don't wish for it.
No, I dont, I have girlfriends, I make out and I have sex.

You have given too little details, so its hard to give advice, but here is how I transform makeout girls in girlfriends: I ask for the fvcking phonenumber and go on dates with them!!!!

What can be so hard about this?
 

Skilla_Staz

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Who knows. I guess a follow up seems beyond some people.
 
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