“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Why can't girls just admit that they have everything easier when it comes to dating?

Warrior74

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I mean, why can't deer admit that they have everything easier when it comes to hunting? I mean the deer just has to sit around and eat and walk and then it only has to run away when it's being shot at?

Why can't bricks admit they just have everything easier when it comes to building houses? I mean bricks don't have to pick themselves up or slap themselves together to build a wall, I have to do all that work myself,and the bricks have it so easy!

I mean, why can't ....<insert whiny rant here>
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The truth is women only have an easier time getting what they want when or if they're young and hot. After that they only have it easier when it comes to getting sex. But they want more then that. So they actually have it harder compared to a man who just wants to bust a nut and eat a sandwich.

Frankly there are lots and lots of mean, miserable, *****y women who are insufferable to be around. Everybody knows exactly what I'm talking about. They're like that because they basically know they'll never be able to find what they want in terms of relationships. There are far less men like that. Why? Because a man can watch porn and jerk off or play a video game and be happy.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
No, that post is garbage and that guy has no clue what he's talking about. Looks are mandatory for being able to get chicks? He's smoking the same s.hit that you bought off that dude at the bus stop.



I'd say it's pretty easy to sucker a guy into a relationship as well, though. On an unrelated note, you live in LA? What are you doing this weekend? ;) Just a joke. But if you ever take cabs, send me a PM. I usually work in Hollywood but drive all over.
I don't think I could sucker anyone into anything, it's not in me... I think most folks can tell when someone really doesn't want to be w/ them (little things give away someone's true emotions) I wouldn't want to be w/ anyone who doesn't want to be w/ me or doesn't improve me in some way, this is not to say monetary but inspires me, I can learn from... someone whose truly my friend... cause really there's no point otherwise.
 

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An apology on behalf of desirable women

A bit out of character for me, but I'm gonna go ahead and choose a side - stickin' up for the ladies here.

Imagine, for a moment, that you are a smart, attractive, successful person.

Then imagine that because you are a smart, attractive, successful person, you are constantly surrounded by losers who want things from you because they can't acquire these things themselves.

Then imagine that people who know nothing about you are constantly judging your character, your appearance, and your achievements/missteps because of jealousy/insecurity/general douchebaggedness.

Then imagine that even when you're just out and about minding your own business, someone, somewhere, whom you've offended in some way that you can never know, is whining about you on the internet.

When you can imagine all of these things, congratulations, you have stepped into the mind and world of the desirable woman.

Just something to think about.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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because women for the most part just have to look good and be cute, pretty, thats all, they don't have to be successful in life, they can have no life, be boring, bratty, immature, whine, mope, have low self-esteem, but if they are very hot, most men will still accept them.
 

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Ahem.

initiatorhater06 said:
they don't have to be successful in life, they can have no life, be boring, bratty, immature, whine, mope, have low self-esteem, but if they are very hot, most men will still accept them.
Correction:

If they are very hot, only chumps with no backbone will still accept them.

Are people really still hung up on this?
 

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initiatorhater06 said:
are you saying that women who are successful in life are attractive?
Of course they are. If you see a beautiful girl who keeps getting low grades, has no friends, no social skills, no accomplishments whatsoever, your penis will shrink when you see her regardless of her looks. Men, like women, are attracted to succes.

Pretty ironic and really sad, now I think of it. I've always been bitter towards women because of my lack of succes with them and for their harsh judgements, but now I see...I'm the same. I judge women just as harsh as they judge me. And a lot of other men too. How many jokes do we make about fat girls?? Every man makes numerous jokes about fat girls in his life. But how many men have desirable bodies? Most men are skinny with narrow shoulders or have a big belly. How attractive are they to women? But they think they deserve a supermodel and are bitter when they get rejected...
 

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**** having a spine, what is so great about it? it's overrated in my opinion, why is having a spine, backbone a masculine thing?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't care if a woman is successful in life, as long the the woman is just a hot, physically-good-looking piece of meat, that is all that matters, nothing else, she can be boring, have no confidence, low self-esteem, etc.
 

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initiatorhater06 said:
I don't care if a woman is successful in life, as long the the woman is just a hot, physically-good-looking piece of meat, that is all that matters, nothing else, she can be boring, have no confidence, low self-esteem, etc.
That's fine. Just don't whine if you end up with a b*tchy one.

**** having a spine, what is so great about it? it's overrated in my opinion, why is having a spine, backbone a masculine thing?
As for that, you might have to ask someone else as to why having a backbone is such a great thing. I don't think I'm equipped to help you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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playergamehater said:
So you think men have it easier? all women have to do is welcome or reject advances, they always have the final say.
...but they don't have juice.
 

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Plinco said:
...but they don't have juice.
women don't need to be involved in anything, they don't need to work or volunteer, they don't need to have a passion for anything, they don't need to have goals, they can be negative everything as long as they are a hot piece of meat
 

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Thats just how I am, I don't care if a girl uses me for me for my money as long as I got some action from her
 

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I have made the same observation. I believe that this is a growing issue; unfortunately it won’t get better before it will only get worse. You see it all started with the genetic modification mass production of food, sitting on your ass at work, and the need for cars, and with it came the "obesity factor" what I like to call. With the astonishing growing number of fat women in the US, men started to fantasize about hot women, unfortunately it was just that. With the crises at hand, good-looking women noticed that they now have the power, as a matter of fact all women did. This is why we have to work so hard, it’s not like we are going to leave with some fat chick, and since women pick personality and stability over looks, unfortunately the scale will not tip the other way. What it all sums up to is that men will even be lucky to have a nice looking woman by their side, if were not all ready there, oH wait, no we are there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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