why being nervous sucks

[DJHoolahoop]

Something happened today that I noticed. I was out with some friends and there was this girl that was with us. She said that she didn't have time to prepare herself better. But someone said something like "yeah cuz otherwise you'd look pretty hot" but said it nervously. And that's when I noticed something. That this guy was trying to come across swuave and C+F, but because he was all nervous about it, it gave off "creep" vibes. And that's when I said "That's ok (girls name), I'll still f_ck you anyways." but i was calm, relaxed and having a good time about it. She of course opened up to me more than the other guy. But this makes sense because I noticed that the same thing used to happen to me when I tried to come off suave. I'd always make things awkward when I said them because I said them nervously. Or with no ballz in other words. But the second I got the balls to say it confidently and smoothly, girls would open up to me.

 

[Smooth Player 056]

I agree. If your going to use a hard neg like that...you cant be unsure of yourself.....you gotta do it full blown.....by the way your friend used a pretty good neg......he just needed a little more confidence and engergy........thats why I stress being in "talk show host mentality"

~Smooth

 

[Soprano]

definitely

If i acted nervous, I would be arrested after the punchline of 50% of my jokes.

I have a disgusting sense of humor

 

[tristanmon]

yes, confidence one of the three pillars you need in your game, its fundimental, without it the other pillars cannot stand, ya follow?