"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why be scared of rejection?

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Next time you see a gorgeous lady and you don't know if you should go talk to her because you are scared of being rejected, simply think:

"Why wouldn't I go see her if I might get rejected while if I do go see her, I might NOT get rejected"

It might not do you any good, but to me that simple sentence was enough to make up my mind a few times, so why not give it a try? Next time you see a hot girl, think of it this way if your hesitating to go see her instead of only seeing the negative part of "I might get rejected"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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snorida44x said:
yes your half right, but instead i use a different one, such as instead of what could go wrong, i think to myself what could go right?

That kinda stuff is important, but you also gotta have the mindset that this one women your approaching doesn't matter, as there are many hot women out there, what makes this particular one so special? This way you don't put to much importance on her and she'll notice that when have that type of attitude, women love it.
Yea I know that, but that sentence is only to convince yourself to approach that one girl. Then if things go wrong, NEXT
 
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