"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why be scared of rejection?

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Next time you see a gorgeous lady and you don't know if you should go talk to her because you are scared of being rejected, simply think:

"Why wouldn't I go see her if I might get rejected while if I do go see her, I might NOT get rejected"

It might not do you any good, but to me that simple sentence was enough to make up my mind a few times, so why not give it a try? Next time you see a hot girl, think of it this way if your hesitating to go see her instead of only seeing the negative part of "I might get rejected"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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snorida44x said:
yes your half right, but instead i use a different one, such as instead of what could go wrong, i think to myself what could go right?

That kinda stuff is important, but you also gotta have the mindset that this one women your approaching doesn't matter, as there are many hot women out there, what makes this particular one so special? This way you don't put to much importance on her and she'll notice that when have that type of attitude, women love it.
Yea I know that, but that sentence is only to convince yourself to approach that one girl. Then if things go wrong, NEXT
 
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