"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LostAndConfused

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*****es be crazy these days acting like their **** dont smell or their snatch don't leak. We men r crazy cause we expect stuff is owed to us, such as respect or a dimeshow hottie.

As my eyes Get opened from the ameliorating effects of the red pill, I'm starting to think this whole society we play our cards in is one great cosmic joke. We run around acting like we don't want to be fcking like an animal right now but we do.

Considering this, how does one NOT become a Iago, if you will, when it comes to dating women? We've all seem the dark, grimy side that girls somehow hide to the masses and themselves - how do they even pull this off? And, how do we reconcile actual relationships with girls knowing this? If they succumbed to your player charms, they certainly can (and want to) succumb to another guy's.

Final note, I really think we as men underestimate a woman's sluttiness or notch count. Ive been in one too many situations at this point where a girl gets fcked by me and doesn't even know my first name - an has to be reminded before I put the next condom on.

Tl;dr - its too easy to get jaded and chop women up to be *****s
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Here's an example of my Iagic thinking.

Dating a cute bird, although she began acting weird three weeks ago. I immediately assumed she was trying to feed me a d*ck sandwich when actually she was stressed with school. I hooked up with another girl that weekend to protect my ego and she of course found out, and now I've devastated a perfectly nice girl.

Do you think at some point, like the rapper tonedef said, we're all still little kids hurt by other little kids? My natural instinct is to see girls as heartless soulless creatures..

... And then I hurt one.
 

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If she wasn't officially your girlfriend how can you take responsibility for her feeling being hurt? She was playing victim. She was acting like a ****, you persued other interests and she then flipped it on you. And you fell for it. If I don't feel guilty or know I was wrong tears don't faze me.
 

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LostAndConfused said:
Ha no, this post isn't about a particular girl.

Game and experiences with women has made me turn cold and hurt great girls in the process. I'm trying to reconcile with that.
That comes from having a bunch of ideals about women that are imaginary and only socially created.

Women are totally cool and I do not have problems because I keep in mind that women are by far the cleverest predators on the face of the earth and the primary function of her addon higher function thinking parts of her mind are specifically geared to hide her true intentions to the extent that they're hidden from herself so she won't give those intentions up accidentally.

Your girlfriend's ancestors faced 10,000+ famines where most of the other girls babies starved to death and her ancestors managed to hoard food and watch as the other women's babies died.

Now, guys in modern society look at girls in dresses and buy into the illusion the girls themselves buy into but you can see it leak out in situations where there's a closeout sale on some particular item and the girls physically attack each other as if it were the last scrap of food to feed their babies. Watch how damned fast a girl can go from calm to screaming she wants someone dead, now, dead dead dead...it's not overreacting, it's the suppressed predator reaching the surface.

Almost all of us are wolves in sheeps clothing....well, some of the guys have figured it out and don't bother...they let the wolf out in plain sight and the women are massively attracted to that and **** their brains out....I wonder why? :yes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A woman's body is her fate.

Women think their pu$$ies are worth a lavish lifestyle and a million bucks.

Women use the promise of sex to get what they want from men.

It seems that women TRULY AND ACTUALLY LOVE a rich, youthful muscleman who has lots of time to spend with her. And though this kind of guy barely exists, women still seek out the alpha. The PUA community knows this, so "game" was invented to communicate the alpha traits that women want and most guys don't really have.
 
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