"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why are you here? (poll)

why are you guys here?

  • To get women to screw only

    Votes: 2 9.1%
  • To learn about women and find the correct LTR chick

    Votes: 8 36.4%
  • A bit of both the above

    Votes: 12 54.5%

  • Total voters
    22

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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comic_relief

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how about neither anymore. I am not here to find how to screw women or find an LTR chick anymore.

Originally I came here to find a good LTR girl (oneitis), but I found life.

I know how to do both, but I am here to help out the lost AFC's on their path to DJism. I don't need to be here anymore, but I choose to stick around and help everyone out.

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comic_relief said:
I am here to help out the lost AFC's on their path to DJism. I don't need to be here anymore, but I choose to stick around and help everyone out.
Same here.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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