"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why are you here? (poll)

why are you guys here?

  • To get women to screw only

    Votes: 2 9.1%
  • To learn about women and find the correct LTR chick

    Votes: 8 36.4%
  • A bit of both the above

    Votes: 12 54.5%

  • Total voters
    22

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how about neither anymore. I am not here to find how to screw women or find an LTR chick anymore.

Originally I came here to find a good LTR girl (oneitis), but I found life.

I know how to do both, but I am here to help out the lost AFC's on their path to DJism. I don't need to be here anymore, but I choose to stick around and help everyone out.

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comic_relief said:
I am here to help out the lost AFC's on their path to DJism. I don't need to be here anymore, but I choose to stick around and help everyone out.
Same here.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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