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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why are women so fascinated by tattoo's?

Evan

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Mike32ct said:
What's interesting is how these women project their attraction to tats onto men.

Just because she gets excited by bad boys with tats, she assumes that men are EQUALLY attracted to tatted girls, which isn't the case for a lot of men.
Yea I admit it's kind of a turnoff for me. I don't mind a girl with a couple of small ones but I have a turn off for the big tats on women. Also I have met some girls where I was really attracted to her and then when I saw her tatoos I was immediately turned off. It's weird.

It's funny you say that they do it because they think that men also find it attractive. Men tend to project what they find attractive in women as something women find attractive. Lots of men think if they are nurturing and submissive that women will find them attractive. Could it be reasons why blue pill mentality was born? It can't be all about financial gain.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mike32ct

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Correct.

Sort of like men being attracted to thin women and repulsed by fat women, but these guys scratch their heads when a skinny dude gets rejected by women and a fat dude gets laid lol.

I used to think that way. "I'm thin. I should be scoring as much as a thin girl, right?" Lol
 

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As a man who does not have any tattoos ..but has dated women who LOVED men with tattoos, I can tell you at the end of the day it doesn't ****ing matter.
 

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Women who smoke, have tattoos, or body piercings in unusual places are a lot more sexually active IME. Think it goes hand in hand with having less respect for their bodies...just my theory
 

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It's because they look masculine and as someone said before, they are traditionally associated with bad boys.

This is why I hate women covered in tattoos. It's a massive turn off for me because it's so masculine.

I've had tattoos for a long time and been working on a sleeve the past year and women love them! It's definitely increased my sex appeal and it's a good talking point too. I notice a lot of girls use it as an excuse to touch me too. If you've got the right look to pull them off, I definitely recommend it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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captain55 said:
Women who smoke, have tattoos, or body piercings in unusual places are a lot more sexually active IME. Think it goes hand in hand with having less respect for their bodies...just my theory

I concur!! These girls are the ones that will typically throw down hard in bed! This has been my experience, so theory proven. I typically love small little accents like nose rings, small tattoos that aren't tacky, belly piercings, etc..
 
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