"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why are women so fascinated by tattoo's?

Evan

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Mike32ct said:
What's interesting is how these women project their attraction to tats onto men.

Just because she gets excited by bad boys with tats, she assumes that men are EQUALLY attracted to tatted girls, which isn't the case for a lot of men.
Yea I admit it's kind of a turnoff for me. I don't mind a girl with a couple of small ones but I have a turn off for the big tats on women. Also I have met some girls where I was really attracted to her and then when I saw her tatoos I was immediately turned off. It's weird.

It's funny you say that they do it because they think that men also find it attractive. Men tend to project what they find attractive in women as something women find attractive. Lots of men think if they are nurturing and submissive that women will find them attractive. Could it be reasons why blue pill mentality was born? It can't be all about financial gain.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mike32ct

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Correct.

Sort of like men being attracted to thin women and repulsed by fat women, but these guys scratch their heads when a skinny dude gets rejected by women and a fat dude gets laid lol.

I used to think that way. "I'm thin. I should be scoring as much as a thin girl, right?" Lol
 

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As a man who does not have any tattoos ..but has dated women who LOVED men with tattoos, I can tell you at the end of the day it doesn't ****ing matter.
 

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Women who smoke, have tattoos, or body piercings in unusual places are a lot more sexually active IME. Think it goes hand in hand with having less respect for their bodies...just my theory
 

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It's because they look masculine and as someone said before, they are traditionally associated with bad boys.

This is why I hate women covered in tattoos. It's a massive turn off for me because it's so masculine.

I've had tattoos for a long time and been working on a sleeve the past year and women love them! It's definitely increased my sex appeal and it's a good talking point too. I notice a lot of girls use it as an excuse to touch me too. If you've got the right look to pull them off, I definitely recommend it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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captain55 said:
Women who smoke, have tattoos, or body piercings in unusual places are a lot more sexually active IME. Think it goes hand in hand with having less respect for their bodies...just my theory

I concur!! These girls are the ones that will typically throw down hard in bed! This has been my experience, so theory proven. I typically love small little accents like nose rings, small tattoos that aren't tacky, belly piercings, etc..
 
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