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Same reason so many guys are incels
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Pill was the big line where everything split. It brought in an era of responsibility-free sex. Women no longer had to be guardians of their womb, and were free to start riding the carousel.I think female contraception also plays a significant part. The almost of women effected mentally / unstable due to this is not something to be ignored.
They got bad advice (mainly from "feminism" and other women), opened their legs before marriage, got pumped & ghosted, became alpha-widows, rode the carousel, and lost their ability to pair-bond.Why do you think all their brains broke?
Yes, fact.Women are broken, men are broken, the culture is broken, society is broken, everything is broken.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The break-up of the family, single moms.. this is where most crazy biches come from!The switch of gender roles. Single mom households. Broken families. No male role model. Nanny state and gov't safety net. Take your pick.
Pain is a massive motivation to do the work to improve.Because they chose to break themselves and will continue to do so. They could turn it around if they wanted to but they refuse to accept their faults and do better. Men do the work to improve themselves, women don’t.
Only in the West.. These are the signs of civilization in decline and collapse.Women are broken, men are broken, the culture is broken, society is broken, everything is broken.
It would put a severe crimp in opportunities for DJ’ing, but having daughters once again under the thumb of their fathers and brothers (including surveillance and approval and introductionof who “talks” to them) would correct this society-wrecking blunder called feminism.Females are terrible decision makers, therefore without guidance of a strong masculine father, they end up making horrible choices in men.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Thanks for your post. I said it is just ONE element ruining the west. I am quite a red-pilled man, but will not mention all my red-pills on here, and judging from the titles you mentioned, which I’m familiar with, you likely know why.I'm surprised James Burham's Suicide of the West was not on that list.
Neither is Oswald Spengler's Decline of the West. (link is not original work, but simplified since the original is a difficult read).
Thomas Carlyle's Latter Day Pamphlets isn't on there either.
Textos by Nicolas Gomez Davilia, The Greatness and Decadence of Gluttony by Laurendo Gomez, and other early 20th century South American reactionaries are missing.
Early 20th century anti-modern writers from Italy, Germany, Hungary, Poland, and Czechoslovakia are not on this list either.
Not even a TS. Eliot poem?
If your Red Pill ended with just anti-feminism, then you my friend got a weak dose.
Thank you!Gotcha. I edited more information to the post you quoted so others don't jump in blind.
Good to see others pushing themselves towards finding real answers and thinking more broadly.
Searing experiences with a psychotic woman make you less romantic, more killer, as you go thru life.Can you provide an example of such a height?
I used to think this way. I still do but realize that men are almost as broken. We dont notice it because we dont date men.I'm late thirties know quite a lot of women, family, friends, female clients.
An overwhelming proportion of women around this age are mentally f ked, they all seem to have some sort of mental illness or some sort condition.
Anyone else observed this?
Why do you think all their brains broke?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bro exactly. I think the manosphere is almost as solopsistic as the females they admonish. Ask a female about their dating experience. You will be amazed at how pathetic men are.You guys debate about women being f8cked, and there is a good observation
How about men? Most men are just as f8cked
If a woman can be a kitty for one guy and a total b1tch to another one, then it means that women are so because most guys are pathetic
Look around you for each woman that is f8cked in the head you will find another guy that is equally f8cked
Even on this forum, just like other similar ones, most of the guys who are complaining are f8cked in the head one way or the other
Gold! Big facts.They are broken and this is why.
Single Mother Households
Its a well know fact single mom households produce the most criminals/degenerates in society.. The vast majority of men/criminals in jail are raised in single mother households.
The opposite side of the coin is, the girls raised in single mother household, more often will turn out to be the crazy, broken Slvt types.
Most girls are broken/crazy due to experiencing trauma.. This trauma is usually sexual abuse or and getting ran through by lots of different men at a very young age.
Females are terrible decision makers, therefore without guidance of a strong masculine father, they end up making horrible choices in men.
They also have absolutely no idea on how to respect a man.
This constant cycle of toxic relationships, breakups, and high body counts, breaks these girls, often they end up taking antidepressants.
Add to the mixture, feminism & the media prompting degenracy in females & you end up in a sick society.
Bro exactly. I think the manosphere is almost as solopsistic as the females they admonish. Ask a female about their dating experience. You will be amazed at how pathetic men are.
I was one of those not so good men when I was slightly younger. Up until my mid 30s I was a big time womanizer, broke, cheater, had a temper, liar and non commital. I had to do a lot of work to be somewhat a catch.
Good people are rare.
Spot on!Yeah, I've starting considering that maybe the self-improvement addicted grindset gymbro willpower willpower type of man is the male equivalent to going crazy because the lack of a stable family hasn't soothed natural instincts.
Assuming an average age of 40 or so, if most men in the manosphere had the legal, religious, and cultural backing to be able to get married and start normal families at age 20 then those children would today be adults and self-sufficient. We'd then be free to find our place in the world and grow as men just like how we did in our 20's, only with a gigantic load off our minds.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.