"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why Are Women Less "Frisky" in Fall/Winter?

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Obviously, fewer women and people in general go out at night when it's colder.

However, of the people who are out, I seem to get fewer IOI's from the ladies.

Anyone notice this trend?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The girls I know just get a bit depressed in winter, pretty much seasonal depression. Lack of sunlight lowers your mood and if the girl like warm sunny beaches, scraping snow off of their car in the morning will really kill their moods.
 

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The effect of cold is readily seen on men and women around here. As you go to more rural places, the women are in worse shape and generally aren't nice. Incidentally, it seems like the cold weather always spawns more fights at bars too so the disposition is seen in men albiet manifested differently. In general yes, it seems that being stuck inside effects a womens libido. Its very difficult to get dates with women from around here as some of them simply do not want to even venture outside. A physical degradation begets mental degradation and so on. Anyone who has ever been to Maine can see this very easily. The women there are in horrible shape and easily probably some of the ugliest I have ever seen in my entire life. Part of that is enabled by the fact that men are plentiful for these women, but part of it is also due to the cold weather.

When I dated a few girls from California, I tried asking why women were in such good shape and so nice. In short the reason for this type of attitude was that there are a LOT of beautiful women to compete with. Furthermore, when you are outside all days of the year, you are always showing yourself off. To use Maine as an example, you have a much longer winter season, much more lethargy, and virtually no competition since most women are hideous. In both instances, the surrounding lifestyles effect what women look like.
 

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Holy sh--: I've gone from merely curious to outright depressed after asking this question. :)

But seriously, y'all are probably right. I notice around the winter holidays the bars are almost completely empty: sparsely attended by somber couples and a bunch of ugly and fat girls who still manage to haul their butts out in the cold.

I may literally skip out on the 'scene' from late nov. through jan. Game picks up once the valentine's day ads start to hit. :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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VladPatton

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guytime said:
Holy sh--: I've gone from merely curious to outright depressed after asking this question. :)

But seriously, y'all are probably right. I notice around the winter holidays the bars are almost completely empty: sparsely attended by somber couples and a bunch of ugly and fat girls who still manage to haul their butts out in the cold.

I may literally skip out on the 'scene' from late nov. through jan. Game picks up once the valentine's day ads start to hit. :)
Heh! Isn't it funny how they long for a man around Valentines, which is in the dead of fückin winter!? Amazing. Profit Hallmark and Russel Stover!
 

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Interesting enough, in my city ita completely the opposite. As long as there's not a snowing like crazy, clubs tend to be more packed than the summer. But its more hard to pick up
 

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Sorry mate, but the answer is really simple, and nothing to do with you...

In winter, they're always wearing long pants or thick stockings, so they don't bother shaving their legs, so they don't feel sexy, so you get bugger all IOI's.
 

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synergy1 said:
The effect of cold is readily seen on men and women around here. As you go to more rural places, the women are in worse shape and generally aren't nice. Incidentally, it seems like the cold weather always spawns more fights at bars too so the disposition is seen in men albiet manifested differently. In general yes, it seems that being stuck inside effects a womens libido. Its very difficult to get dates with women from around here as some of them simply do not want to even venture outside. A physical degradation begets mental degradation and so on. Anyone who has ever been to Maine can see this very easily. The women there are in horrible shape and easily probably some of the ugliest I have ever seen in my entire life. Part of that is enabled by the fact that men are plentiful for these women, but part of it is also due to the cold weather.

When I dated a few girls from California, I tried asking why women were in such good shape and so nice. In short the reason for this type of attitude was that there are a LOT of beautiful women to compete with. Furthermore, when you are outside all days of the year, you are always showing yourself off. To use Maine as an example, you have a much longer winter season, much more lethargy, and virtually no competition since most women are hideous. In both instances, the surrounding lifestyles effect what women look like.
I'm originally from N.E. and synergy1 nailed this on the head. I now live in Texas and the same even applies here. However it does not get COLD here at all.

Now to a native Texan anything under 60 and it's like they hibernate, with the exception to holiday parties.

This is were seasonal relationships more or less become created. So we have winter hook-ups and/or summer hook-ups, I prefer winter because like OP said plates are a little more of a challenge. That and it's much better to be available during spring/summer months. :woo:

It's almost like Halloween is like the last free for all for broads. Dress really slvtty at this Halloween party so I can attract as much attention as possible! That way this winter they don't have to go out as much and still have plenty of orbiters.
 

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This is just a thought, but maybe girls like to nail down steady boyfriends for the major holidays (Thanksgiving and Christmas). That way they have someone to take to family get togethers, and they can get good presents. Then they can dump them after New Years.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The good news: there were plenty of girls out this weekend.

Bad news: they were uglier, fatter, and fewer in number than during summer.

Why are girls so fat these days? It's really fuxxed up. Most of them outweigh me.
 

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Excessive sugar consumption is why. We consume an AVERAGE of 27 teaspoons of sugar every day.
 

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A friend of mine pulled a fattie. :p He didn't care.

I also three guys fighting over a fattie. I mean literally fighting, and all night long.

We are reaching a point of insanity.

edit -- I guess fatter women can bear the cold better than skinny women, so they're more likely to go out in the winter.
 

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Man, the winter blues are starting to affect me already, and it's not even winter!

I used to look forward to the winter, because of the holidays. Now, I seem to focus on the cold and lack of light.
 
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