If you want to reply, It would be better if you do it before reading further, because part 2 is connected, but it could influence your answer to part one.
Part 2:
This is thought-provoking.
It's as if when we talk about this guy, we're not talking about him so much, but more about the fact that he's a soccer player, or a player.
It's as if women were attracted to the rumor, rather than the fact that he's actually a soccer player.
The same also happen when women aren't attracted to men with money, but rather, it's not the fact that the man "has" money, and how that makes them feel about a man who doesn't.
It's simply a "feeling" about that the man has money, rather than something real in itself.
In practice, we men aren't attracted to the sensation but to the real thing itself, while women are attracted to the sensation, rather than the thing itself. Does that make sense?
If this were true, then every man out there in a committed or long term relationship has no logical meaning...
After realizing this, as a man, you just focus on making as much money as possible, f8ck every woman really in the right timing, when they "feel that sensation," and don't worry about when she no longer feels that sensation, because you already have another woman ready who's feeling that sensation for you. Do you understand?
Women are there when you're a winner, even when you cheat others. They don't stay with an honest loser who's rolling up his sleeves and giving his best and will have results within one to three years.
In that temporary situation, they make the choice, through their emotions, to be with the winner, the man who makes them feel better.
(This could be confirmed by the fact that women are and remain in traumatic relationships with men who always win, even by bullying others.
And it happens with their children too, they don't want their children to be bullied, so they play the "equality" role by having a nice facade and explaining "how rules works", but they would turn a blind eye if their child is bullying or making fun of others to gain advantage and win. This happen usually in kids sports competitions.)
So if you're a man, when she makes you feel like sh1t, or brings drama, do as she would: leave her for a woman who doesn't cause you that drama and respects you.
If you're a man, and you've had this understanding of women, and how fleeting their regard for us men is, and that it really all depends on a feeling, rather than a genuine shared emotional connection (just things some men can do with other men in their lives through their friendships), then you've understood that it's you as a man who holds the reins of life, who always has the upper hand.
For women, it's a feeling.
For us men, it's life, hard work, and real things.
Feelings are short-lived, real things remain.
