Why are we afraid of rejection from women?

Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Urbanyst

Banned

Mar 1, 2017

deesade said:
Whilst I believe that society, and this game, is designed for a woman's needs and convenience, I don't believe that women are "better" than men at all.

Women who are interested offer me the same sort of experience. Making their value drop.

A dominant, charming man offers women a unique experience. Therefore, the power shifts.

In terms of game:

1. Alpha male
2. Women
3. Beta providers

Exactly what I was saying.

Men are at the top and bottom. Women are in the middle.

It has always been this way and probably always will be.

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.