Why are we afraid of rejection from women?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Urbanyst

Banned

Mar 1, 2017

deesade said:
Whilst I believe that society, and this game, is designed for a woman's needs and convenience, I don't believe that women are "better" than men at all.

Women who are interested offer me the same sort of experience. Making their value drop.

A dominant, charming man offers women a unique experience. Therefore, the power shifts.

In terms of game:

1. Alpha male
2. Women
3. Beta providers

Exactly what I was saying.

Men are at the top and bottom. Women are in the middle.

It has always been this way and probably always will be.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.