SargeMaximus
Master Don Juan
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Yeah thanks. I’ll figure it outSorry. Your in a tough spot. Perhaps your overthinking it?
Even porn stars get some head to start their erection.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah thanks. I’ll figure it outSorry. Your in a tough spot. Perhaps your overthinking it?
Even porn stars get some head to start their erection.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
His brother likely getting some vitamin D.Has it occured to you that the brother you consider a loser is pulling better quality wins with women than you because he is more open minded and has a more positive vibe than you? Sometimes what we view as strength is actually a major weakness. If a “loser” is filling his cabinet with trophies then clearly he isnt a loser. Similarly if a self-certified “alpha winner” is pulling 5-6s at best, then he needs to check his definition of a “winner”.
I sense your brother is a happy-go-lucky guy whose positive attitude and embracing personality endears him to people from all walks of life. Your so-called ‘masculine non-conformism’ is clearly doing you no favours. It may be time to restrategise. Dont continue to use the wrong mathematical formula, hoping that it miraculously will produce a correct answer. 1+1 is always = 2.
I think you nailed it tbh. Women are so competitiveIf she knows you were seeing ms 6 or 6.5 what ever she was to you. The one that you banged 3 times... Maybe having ED with ms.7.5 rose your value to her by forcing her to think "maybe he doesn't like me as much as the other girls". Therefore creating dread and competition.
Agreed. I still say being genuine is the wayI can tell you guys when I feel like someone is playing mind games with me, I start to play mind games back. I would think that fits right in to interacting with women while just being myself.
Fair. I still say being genuine is the key FOR MEI think you misunderstood me. I am all too willing to lie and manipulate women. Seems to me, whether women realize it or not will always be attempting to manipulate/play mind games with men. That is their default program running in the background. So, I'll just be myself with counter lying and manipulation.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Part of genuine is dropping them if its too much bull.Agreed. I still say being genuine is the way
YupPart of genuine is dropping them if its too much bull.