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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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why are there so many AFC's on Myspace??????

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alright I was browing threw some pics on my friends list..and when I came accross the hot girls..I would look and see lots of comments..and I mean these dudes have embaressed themselves....

If you look at the comments on hot girls..its a joke...that is terrible...you will never ever pick up a girl that way..nor will you in person like that?

do you think they are like that..or just clowning with there comments?
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

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Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
alright I was browing threw some pics on my friends list..and when I came accross the hot girls..I would look and see lots of comments..and I mean these dudes have embaressed themselves....

If you look at the comments on hot girls..its a joke...that is terrible...you will never ever pick up a girl that way..nor will you in person like that?

do you think they are like that..or just clowning with there comments?
Some of them are friends of the girl and clowning around.

Some of them are strangers and clowning around.

Most of them ARE AFC's who think that giving lame, worn out compliments will get them anywhere. It will give them some attention from these women is some cases (which only encourages them). However, this attention is only given by the woman because she is expecting more in return (as do pretty much all women).
 

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think that is bad. look through online personal for guys, more then half have the same type of stuff. I know for a fact that a decent gurl with a normal profile, will get at least 5 of those every day (don't ask me haw i know). Some of which are one liners like; "nice", or: "you look hot, wana chat". One of my favorate once was from an ugly ass guy: "you seam fun so lets have fun haw about it" no comas, ****y gramer, and absolute stupid thing to say......................
 

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for instance if I am going to talk to girl on myspace..

I never leave a comment...I just send them a message.

I Will title it abotu something I find interesting in there profile..then talk bout it..ask a question..and say something funny

nearly 100 percent reply
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
alright I was browing threw some pics on my friends list..and when I came accross the hot girls..I would look and see lots of comments..and I mean these dudes have embaressed themselves....

If you look at the comments on hot girls..its a joke...that is terrible...you will never ever pick up a girl that way..nor will you in person like that?

do you think they are like that..or just clowning with there comments?
Dude...if they were "Don Juans", would they be hunting around on MySpace?
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Re: Re: why are there so many AFC's on Myspace??????

Originally posted by squirrels
Dude...if they were "Don Juans", would they be hunting around on MySpace?
This is the reason I cancelled all my online personal sites. I dont want these fishing lines out there while I wait around. I need to get active about this stuff and these sites only give a reason to work less since they give you the false confidence that somone special is actually going to find you.

EDIT:: First post, Ive been lurking for a while though and I just wanted to Hi to everyone.
 

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AE...

You all were once like them Some of you still are. Good thing you found SoSuave, though...
 

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Re: Re: why are there so many AFC's on Myspace??????

Originally posted by squirrels
Dude...if they were "Don Juans", would they be hunting around on MySpace?
Exactly.

Get out there and meet women IN REAL LIFE!
 

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I just got an appreciation for those online dating sites, but more as a SUPPLEMENT to my skills in person.

It's like leaving a little fishing line in the water, while I go out and do my own thing, then whenever I am home, I check the line for any catches...
 

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I agree these guys are going to get nowhere with those comments. Don't totaly discount myspace though. I just got on there and now with some of the tips I've learned here I got a date with a HB8 I met on there. It's deffinatly no substitute for going out though.
 

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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online dating is lame....:down: :down:
 

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Yea why do you think they are on myspace lookin for girls?, cause they act all needy in real life and it doesnt work, so they are forced to look for ***** on myspace. Yeah I have myspace and the comments they leave are absolutley pathetic , look at this page and scroll down to the bottom to see the comments, and this girl goes to my school and she isnt even that hot in real life, plus I gaurantee you she will not talk to any of these dudes, she only meets reall life ppl... here is her profile
 

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Yeah that profile reeks of attention *****. Plus, you ever notice how in two of those shots she's using her arms to squeeze her breasts together to make them look bigger?
 

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LOL thanks for that link - hilarious.

The guys always call her beautiful... as if they'd have a chance posting comments on the internet with 50 other guys saying the same thing.

(paraphrased actually):
"hey whats up beautiful", "oh hit me back, beautiful", "holla atcha boy", "you're so hottt, thanks for the add!"

and my favourite comment:

"send me your AIM thru email so the other guys dont see it. they might bother you" <----LOL
I mean, I can understand that with the right attitude you can call someone beautiful in real life if you're all smooth and sh1t, but on the internet?? That's just ridiculous!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've just checked out the site and found of how stupid it really is. I can't believe it. Pathetic.
 
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