"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why are there so many AFC's on Myspace??????

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alright I was browing threw some pics on my friends list..and when I came accross the hot girls..I would look and see lots of comments..and I mean these dudes have embaressed themselves....

If you look at the comments on hot girls..its a joke...that is terrible...you will never ever pick up a girl that way..nor will you in person like that?

do you think they are like that..or just clowning with there comments?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
alright I was browing threw some pics on my friends list..and when I came accross the hot girls..I would look and see lots of comments..and I mean these dudes have embaressed themselves....

If you look at the comments on hot girls..its a joke...that is terrible...you will never ever pick up a girl that way..nor will you in person like that?

do you think they are like that..or just clowning with there comments?
Some of them are friends of the girl and clowning around.

Some of them are strangers and clowning around.

Most of them ARE AFC's who think that giving lame, worn out compliments will get them anywhere. It will give them some attention from these women is some cases (which only encourages them). However, this attention is only given by the woman because she is expecting more in return (as do pretty much all women).
 

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think that is bad. look through online personal for guys, more then half have the same type of stuff. I know for a fact that a decent gurl with a normal profile, will get at least 5 of those every day (don't ask me haw i know). Some of which are one liners like; "nice", or: "you look hot, wana chat". One of my favorate once was from an ugly ass guy: "you seam fun so lets have fun haw about it" no comas, ****y gramer, and absolute stupid thing to say......................
 

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for instance if I am going to talk to girl on myspace..

I never leave a comment...I just send them a message.

I Will title it abotu something I find interesting in there profile..then talk bout it..ask a question..and say something funny

nearly 100 percent reply
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
alright I was browing threw some pics on my friends list..and when I came accross the hot girls..I would look and see lots of comments..and I mean these dudes have embaressed themselves....

If you look at the comments on hot girls..its a joke...that is terrible...you will never ever pick up a girl that way..nor will you in person like that?

do you think they are like that..or just clowning with there comments?
Dude...if they were "Don Juans", would they be hunting around on MySpace?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Re: Re: why are there so many AFC's on Myspace??????

Originally posted by squirrels
Dude...if they were "Don Juans", would they be hunting around on MySpace?
This is the reason I cancelled all my online personal sites. I dont want these fishing lines out there while I wait around. I need to get active about this stuff and these sites only give a reason to work less since they give you the false confidence that somone special is actually going to find you.

EDIT:: First post, Ive been lurking for a while though and I just wanted to Hi to everyone.
 

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AE...

You all were once like them Some of you still are. Good thing you found SoSuave, though...
 

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Re: Re: why are there so many AFC's on Myspace??????

Originally posted by squirrels
Dude...if they were "Don Juans", would they be hunting around on MySpace?
Exactly.

Get out there and meet women IN REAL LIFE!
 

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I just got an appreciation for those online dating sites, but more as a SUPPLEMENT to my skills in person.

It's like leaving a little fishing line in the water, while I go out and do my own thing, then whenever I am home, I check the line for any catches...
 

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I agree these guys are going to get nowhere with those comments. Don't totaly discount myspace though. I just got on there and now with some of the tips I've learned here I got a date with a HB8 I met on there. It's deffinatly no substitute for going out though.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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online dating is lame....:down: :down:
 

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Yea why do you think they are on myspace lookin for girls?, cause they act all needy in real life and it doesnt work, so they are forced to look for ***** on myspace. Yeah I have myspace and the comments they leave are absolutley pathetic , look at this page and scroll down to the bottom to see the comments, and this girl goes to my school and she isnt even that hot in real life, plus I gaurantee you she will not talk to any of these dudes, she only meets reall life ppl... here is her profile
 

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Yeah that profile reeks of attention *****. Plus, you ever notice how in two of those shots she's using her arms to squeeze her breasts together to make them look bigger?
 

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LOL thanks for that link - hilarious.

The guys always call her beautiful... as if they'd have a chance posting comments on the internet with 50 other guys saying the same thing.

(paraphrased actually):
"hey whats up beautiful", "oh hit me back, beautiful", "holla atcha boy", "you're so hottt, thanks for the add!"

and my favourite comment:

"send me your AIM thru email so the other guys dont see it. they might bother you" <----LOL
I mean, I can understand that with the right attitude you can call someone beautiful in real life if you're all smooth and sh1t, but on the internet?? That's just ridiculous!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've just checked out the site and found of how stupid it really is. I can't believe it. Pathetic.
 
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