Why Are the Most Attractive People Often Lonely and Sexless?

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You know any attractive friend?

Be that male or female..
You know many people desire him/her, but still, those are not getting laid, nor they've friends because of the hate/envy on their attraction.

How those kinda people solve this problem in their life?
 

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Very attractive people tend to live in their heads a lot happens to both men and women

coming back down to earth can solve it
 

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You know any attractive friend?

Be that male or female..
You know many people desire him/her, but still, those are not getting laid, nor they've friends because of the hate/envy on their attraction.

How those kinda people solve this problem in their life?
I’m not a gorgeous man, but I’m attractive enough. My best friend is tall and handsome. For the most part women didn’t give a **** about us until our early 20s, with the foremost reasons bring mental problems from tumultuous broken homes and checked out dads, poor self images, and above all, first and foremost thin social circle—no connections! He was a virgin until 21 years old.
 

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I've been well above average looking my entire life even now as I've aged. I've had haters my entire life, both men and women, people who don't even know me. Either people were drawn to me by my charisma and appearance or they just f*cking hated me for it. They just assumed I'm an a-hole because of how I look and carry myself. I've always been very confident and outgoing which also pisses some people off. I've had women really launch into me and rip me immediately upon meeting me, kind of funny. I've just learned to live with it. Plus, it's always better to be good looking than not.
 

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It took a long way, how old are you If I may ask?
You may have misunderstood me. I didn't recently learn to deal with it, I did a long, long time ago. Some people just hate for the sake of hating because you have what they want--and can't have (looks, charisma, personality, etc.).

I'm over 50.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Well, I know for certain that the most attractive women are getting laid. And if they aren't, it's by their choice.
It's possible the most attractive women these days don't have high body counts because their expectations and requirements are so (delusional-ly) high. Women have gotten so picky the HB8+ ones likely don't even date that much.

I think the women with the highest body counts are probably the ones in the HB5-6 range, thinking they better take what they can get.
 

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It's possible the most attractive women these days don't have high body counts because their expectations and requirements are so (delusional-ly) high. Women have gotten so picky the HB8+ ones likely don't even date that much.

I think the women with the highest body counts are probably the ones in the HB5-6 range, thinking they better take what they can get.
I think you're probably right about the highest body counts. But as for the most attractive women, they may well hold out for the better/best suitors. As I said, it's their choice.
 

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I think you're probably right about the highest body counts. But as for the most attractive women, they may well hold out for the better/best suitors. As I said, it's their choice.
Yes I think the less attractive women have more to prove. If they can’t get the Chads, they still want to “flex” their “abundance” and thus rack up a higher count.
 

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Haven't met too many attractive people who are lonely and sexless. In any event, being ugly-in this day and age especially*-is in large part a CHOICE

*It ain't The Medieval Era anymore, thus there's no shortage of technology and techniques out there which enable one to become hotter than we are naturally
 

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Pickiness. The evolutionary instinct to only mate with the best is put into overdrive for a specimen is one of the best.
 

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It's possible the most attractive women these days don't have high body counts because their expectations and requirements are so (delusional-ly) high. Women have gotten so picky the HB8+ ones likely don't even date that much.

I think the women with the highest body counts are probably the ones in the HB5-6 range, thinking they better take what they can get.
i find women bellow 6 more anxious and difficult than girls 6+

usually, from my experience at least, the better looking a girl is the easier it is to talk with and give together

I guess that 6s ( decent looking ) and bellow are also higher on anxiety ,for whatever reason, than the better looking ones

the irony is that it is more likely a 6 to reject me middle of the courtship process, than for a girl that is a 6+ to do the same thing

I think that girls that are 6s and bellow because they are higher on anxiety, they will also be very sensitive to feeling vulnerable. And a woman feels very vulnerable when she likes a guy

Also, with 6+ women usually you are kinda rejected ( usually in a smooth social way ) from the get go, but in the vast majority of cases if you are calibrated and move things forward they will rarely reject you down the line ( if you pass the initial screening )

in a way it is like usually it is said, easier to date/seduce 6+ women than to date 6s and bellow, and I think that the majority of frustration that guys feel actually steams from fishing at the bottom of the barrel for 5s and bellow
 
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