"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why are some women so full of sh!t?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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This.
That's why it is futile to try to understand emotions. It is logical to understand rationality. Likewise, emotions must be reciprocated with emotions to fully comprehend the situation.
Same reason they equal pay but don't think they should have to do the same job (s) as men. They want all double standards to suit them.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wifehunter
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Wussified men have spoiled women. So, naturally, the women "feel" entitled to get away with whatever they want, and get the best deal in any situation. No beta is going to stand up to them, they're too busy buying flowers and supplicating. It's best, just to walk away from fools, anyway.
logicallefty
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They are meant to be LEAD by men. But they no longer believe that, and thus one of the big reasons why things are so f'ed up.
Robert_F
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dutchmaster
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this is truth right here fellas
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
KingBeef
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Love that common sense, logic and reality all wrapped up in one...
SeymourCake
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And it is love by men that properly guides them.
Lozboss
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It still doesn't remove the frustration.
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He is not evil or arrogant, he is simply programmed to have asymetrical relations and perceive as weak those who behave in a certain way.
El Payaso
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Good analogy.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.