"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Why are some women so full of sh!t?
- Thread starter El Payaso
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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SeymourCake
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This.
That's why it is futile to try to understand emotions. It is logical to understand rationality. Likewise, emotions must be reciprocated with emotions to fully comprehend the situation.
Same reason they equal pay but don't think they should have to do the same job (s) as men. They want all double standards to suit them.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
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Wussified men have spoiled women. So, naturally, the women "feel" entitled to get away with whatever they want, and get the best deal in any situation. No beta is going to stand up to them, they're too busy buying flowers and supplicating. It's best, just to walk away from fools, anyway.
logicallefty
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They are meant to be LEAD by men. But they no longer believe that, and thus one of the big reasons why things are so f'ed up.
Robert_F
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dutchmaster
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this is truth right here fellas
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
KingBeef
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Love that common sense, logic and reality all wrapped up in one...
SeymourCake
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And it is love by men that properly guides them.
Lozboss
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It still doesn't remove the frustration.
Who Dares Win
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He is not evil or arrogant, he is simply programmed to have asymetrical relations and perceive as weak those who behave in a certain way.
El Payaso
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Good analogy.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.