"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why are so many women in LTRs and marrying gay men? 2,000th post!

DonGorgon

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Why are so many women in LTRs with and marrying gay men?

I am sure you have all seen it, at the park at the mall etc. young middlaged and older women kids near by baby in stroller hand in hand with a flamboyantly gay man not even hiding his gayness..

I AM SEEING THIS MORE AND MORE AND I WANT TO KNOW WHY?

Ok, so women always say that they like gay men as "friends" cause they have so much in common and cause the gay man wont try to F them... Then they admit that they find many gay men very physically attractive... BUt now it seems that many women are entering into relationships and sleeping with these men. Some claim they didnt know ...

Please give your own explanation for this disturbing Fenomenon.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have never seen a woman married to a gay man.

In one of my social circle's I know a gay guy. Even though he is gay he has still had sex with women. Or gets to have 3 ways with 1 guy and 1 girl. How, do I know this? Well, I was drunk and asked him questions... :crazy:

But, when I think about why would women fvck a gay man. And it has to be on some level of attraction behond looks. Gay men don't chase or hit on girls. They treat them as just friends and compliment them on their looks. They do girl things with them and ect..... :confused:
 

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I don't understand, women marry gay men? Doesn't that guaruntee they will not get any sex?

I mean if a guy married a lesbian worst case she could just use lube and the guy is good to go, but what, is the guy going to have to get viagra just to consumate his marriage? Because if they can get it up normally with a woman, they are not gay - just like a straight guy will not become horny with another guy. (Never tried, but I imagine I would probably puke).
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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n00bPimp said:
2,000 posts.
A good example of being a winner and a loser at the same time.

CONGRATS!
:D :D
 

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DonGorgon said:
Why are so many women in LTRs with and marrying gay men?

I am sure you have all seen it, at the park at the mall etc. young middlaged and older women kids near by baby in stroller hand in hand with a flamboyantly gay man not even hiding his gayness..

I AM SEEING THIS MORE AND MORE AND I WANT TO KNOW WHY?

Ok, so women always say that they like gay men as "friends" cause they have so much in common and cause the gay man wont try to F them... Then they admit that they find many gay men very physically attractive... BUt now it seems that many women are entering into relationships and sleeping with these men. Some claim they didnt know ...

Please give your own explanation for this disturbing Fenomenon.
Less cooking and cleaning on their part and they don't have to fake a headache to get out of sex?
 

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AKA FLEX said:
Less cooking and cleaning on their part and they don't have to fake a headache to get out of sex?

Maybe so with the cooking and cleaning but the sex part I am guessing the gay men would want sex form her just not vaginal right!?

I thing the end is near...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wtf? is this really happening?
 

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The relationship is un-natural and will not be in a harmonic balance. I will not last long.
 

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TanzaniaMan said:
What is with all the gay threads on here

I've been wondering that myself. First visit to the discussion forum in awhile and I see at least three active gay threads!?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonGorgon said:
so he is gay.. WTF???
No he used it as a false disqualifyer to get the groups defenses down and once he isolates his target and kisses her she will always say "I thought you were gay?" he would then go into a story about how he wasn't but his brother really is and would say "these are black nails not pink"
 

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Brandonc662 said:
No he used it as a false disqualifyer to get the groups defenses down and once he isolates his target and kisses her she will always say "I thought you were gay?" he would then go into a story about how he wasn't but his brother really is and would say "these are black nails not pink"
^^omg WTH
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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